The out door program by Shannon Tanner at Shelter Cove and Gregg Russell at Harbor Town are fun for the entire family. While being geared to the younger children, it's fun for all ages. Since Shelter Cove is walking distance, I'd recomment that one. There is a fee and parking hastles to get to HT.
Restaurant recommendations include Charlies, Santa Fe, Guisseppie's Pizza, Old Oyster Factory, Old Fort Pub, Cafe Europa and another pizza place almost directly across from DVC. IF you exit DVC at the light, there's a small bussiness section on the far right corner in a complex that's like stained cedar. In that area, near the back is another pizza place that was wonderful, sorry don't remember the name. Don't forget to pick up coupon books, etc and use the DVC discounts. I've also heard good things about Fitsgerald's, Haufbrau House, Cafe Wexford, Wild Wings, Bamboo house, Truffles. Didn't care for Crazy Crab, Steamers or CQ.