Lorelei Lee
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Feb 6, 2011
I think the bottom line is that your daughter needs, and asked for, counseling. I don't think the friend is the real issue, and your daughter needs to work out the real issue in counseling.
I think the bottom line is that your daughter needs, and asked for, counseling. I don't think the friend is the real issue, and your daughter needs to work out the real issue in counseling.
But is that a bad thing? I want my daughter to be well rounded but she feels her grades are the priority. I personally am not stressing that but I did tell my daughter that since I don't expect her to work at a job school is her priority.
My dh went to one of the toughest schools in the country, and he played varsity baseball. He was a pitcher and could throw 90+ MPH. He was really good. But he realized that 5 hours a day of practice wasn't helping him achieve his real, goal, which was medicine. So he quit playing ball. It was a good choice. He focused everything on his grades, and that was a good choice, too. Obviously he still had a social life, we were dating then, and got married right before he went to med school. But for some professions, grades matter more than others. I didn't need to graduate with honors. It has done nothing for me, vs just graduating. But dh had to have a certain GPA and MCAT score to even think about med school.
Maybe I should mention he got a full ride to both, undergrad and med school. And he had to keep up a certain GPA.