Tinijocaro
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Mar 5, 2005
Wow-first of all, I haven't been on these boards in a while, not sure how long.
Here's my story:
Last Friday night I was cleaning out my yahoo email and saw two emails from 23 and me from the same person. She said "Hello, you're my aunt and I believe your brother is my father. I've been looking for my dad for 37 years."
Of course it was midnight. My sisters (3 of them) were asleep. Everyone was asleep. I couldn't sleep at all! My brother is 64 and has no children. His wife has four daughters and a bunch of grandchildren that he considers his.
Next morning my sisters and I do a conference call so I can tell them all the news at the same time and ask for advice. Do I tell my brother? Do I stay out of it and assume he knows already? What if he is not an email checker and doesn't know?
I ended up calling him and asking if he has checked his 23 and me messages lately. Long story short, he was in huge denial about it at first but by the next day he had already contacted his daugher and they've been talking on the phone and texting ever since. He lives in Florida and she lives in NY state, where my sisters and I live. My dad is still living and will turn 95 soon. He didn't believe my brother when he told him!
Anyways, I have a new niece, my brother is now a dad and my dad has another granddaughter. My family is very excited about the whole thing and are hoping to meet her when my brother comes up in August to visit.
I'd love to hear some other ancestry stories!
Here's my story:
Last Friday night I was cleaning out my yahoo email and saw two emails from 23 and me from the same person. She said "Hello, you're my aunt and I believe your brother is my father. I've been looking for my dad for 37 years."
Of course it was midnight. My sisters (3 of them) were asleep. Everyone was asleep. I couldn't sleep at all! My brother is 64 and has no children. His wife has four daughters and a bunch of grandchildren that he considers his.
Next morning my sisters and I do a conference call so I can tell them all the news at the same time and ask for advice. Do I tell my brother? Do I stay out of it and assume he knows already? What if he is not an email checker and doesn't know?
I ended up calling him and asking if he has checked his 23 and me messages lately. Long story short, he was in huge denial about it at first but by the next day he had already contacted his daugher and they've been talking on the phone and texting ever since. He lives in Florida and she lives in NY state, where my sisters and I live. My dad is still living and will turn 95 soon. He didn't believe my brother when he told him!
Anyways, I have a new niece, my brother is now a dad and my dad has another granddaughter. My family is very excited about the whole thing and are hoping to meet her when my brother comes up in August to visit.
I'd love to hear some other ancestry stories!
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