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I had never encountered this situation before, but have now seen it happen twice this week. Should dads with young daughters take them into the men's room, or the ladies' room?
Last weekend, I was in a large mall and saw a dad with two small kids (a girl around 4-years old and a boy around 5 or 6-years old) walk into the ladies' room. He took both kids into a stall and shut the door. After using the stall, they walked to the sink, washed their hands and left. Other ladies walked in and were clearly taken aback at the sight of a man in there. Right next to the ladies' room was a family restroom. I definitely think the dad should have taken his kids in there. It was a single-use restroom and there were several families waiting. I suspect he didn't want to wait. But should he have taken the kids into the ladies' room or the men's room?
The other day, I was on a field trip to a small community farm with my preschool class. We had lots of parents with us. This place had small public restrooms (the ladies' room had two stalls). I walked into the ladies' room and saw one of our dads in there with his 3-year old daughter. I decided to wait outside until they were done. I just didn't feel comfortable using a stall next to one of my classroom dads. I have taken this little girl to the restroom many times at school, and I know she takes a long time in there. I stood outside for close to 10 minutes while they finished up. I don't know if the dad also used the restroom while they were in there. Perhaps he didn't want to take his daughter into a men's room and possibly walk her by a man using the urinal?
I always took my young sons into the ladies' room and walked them directly to a stall. It never occurred to me to take them into the men's room. I know that all-gender restrooms are becoming more popular, however, people can decide if they are comfortable using them. If you see a sign on the door that says "ladies" or "men", you should be able to safely assume that there aren't adults of the other gender in there.
So, should dads use the ladies' room with their young daughters, or should they take them into the men's room (assuming a family restroom is not available)?
Last weekend, I was in a large mall and saw a dad with two small kids (a girl around 4-years old and a boy around 5 or 6-years old) walk into the ladies' room. He took both kids into a stall and shut the door. After using the stall, they walked to the sink, washed their hands and left. Other ladies walked in and were clearly taken aback at the sight of a man in there. Right next to the ladies' room was a family restroom. I definitely think the dad should have taken his kids in there. It was a single-use restroom and there were several families waiting. I suspect he didn't want to wait. But should he have taken the kids into the ladies' room or the men's room?
The other day, I was on a field trip to a small community farm with my preschool class. We had lots of parents with us. This place had small public restrooms (the ladies' room had two stalls). I walked into the ladies' room and saw one of our dads in there with his 3-year old daughter. I decided to wait outside until they were done. I just didn't feel comfortable using a stall next to one of my classroom dads. I have taken this little girl to the restroom many times at school, and I know she takes a long time in there. I stood outside for close to 10 minutes while they finished up. I don't know if the dad also used the restroom while they were in there. Perhaps he didn't want to take his daughter into a men's room and possibly walk her by a man using the urinal?
I always took my young sons into the ladies' room and walked them directly to a stall. It never occurred to me to take them into the men's room. I know that all-gender restrooms are becoming more popular, however, people can decide if they are comfortable using them. If you see a sign on the door that says "ladies" or "men", you should be able to safely assume that there aren't adults of the other gender in there.
So, should dads use the ladies' room with their young daughters, or should they take them into the men's room (assuming a family restroom is not available)?