Dis_couple269
Earning My Ears
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- May 12, 2016
Good evening all,
Its been some time since I have been on here much less posted anything.
I have been a lifelong Disney fan, my favorite place in the world is, Disney World (join the club right?)
I've been there twice now, each time was such a freeing experience where I could really let my Disney colors fly.
The last time I visited was 3 years ago with my ex. It has been a highlight of my life that I will always look back on fondly. Since then many things have changed in my life. The past 3 years have been nothing short of a struggle. I've dealt with leaving a broken relationship, having my special needs son only 50% of the time, 3 close friends dying within a year of each other, then to top it off having a series of unfortunate events which has caused a few job changes. This current job is my longest one in 2years now. It is a solid job that isn't going anywhere and i am plugged in at. I also recently purchased a new truck (it is the nicest vehicle i've ever owned). My current relationship has its struggles like any other but it is extremely promising and I am looking forward to the future with her. So things are looking up.
However,
Around January 30th 2019 something happened to me, I experienced my first full blown panic attack. I've had anxiety issues many years ago but it seemed to had went away for 5 years. Then out of nowhere it hit me like a freight train while I was on the highway driving. Ever since the day I have had incredible amounts of anxiety attacks and a few more full blown panic attacks. I have taken counseling, tried medicine (which seemed to only make it worse) meditation, working out, going out shooting, focusing on hobbies, everything one would do that has anxiety/stress retention issues. I am finding a pretty solid way of handling the attacks when they happen now.
Now that you are somewhat up to speed,
I still struggle with long drives (anything on a highway for over 45mins usually has me looking for a way out of the car/truck), I am terrified of flying (this has been like this for day 1, some people are terrified of snakes, well for me its flying), what does this have to do with anything you ask? Well, I live in Michigan, 18hrs from my front step to Magic Kingdom parking lot.
When saying its Only 18hrs away, it doesn't sound that bad at all. Sounds like we could do that drive in day, we leave at 6am arrive at hotel by Midnight. Then you have food, bathroom, gas, and stretch the leg stops bump that up to a 22 - 24 hr drive. I know because my ex and I flew down and drove back.
Now with the anxiety and panic attacks I feel stuck and unable to go to my favorite place. The want to go is there. I even have two tickets (3 day passes we got from the nearby Disney Store). My significant other is more than excited to go, but it's my anxiety and fear of having a panic attack holding me back.
My question to everyone or anyone,
Am I alone with this? Its a very isolating feeling, just trying to find any thing that may help, or heck maybe someone else is in the same boat and needs a friend to relate to. I'm not sure which I am looking for but, something?
Thank you
Its been some time since I have been on here much less posted anything.
I have been a lifelong Disney fan, my favorite place in the world is, Disney World (join the club right?)
I've been there twice now, each time was such a freeing experience where I could really let my Disney colors fly.
The last time I visited was 3 years ago with my ex. It has been a highlight of my life that I will always look back on fondly. Since then many things have changed in my life. The past 3 years have been nothing short of a struggle. I've dealt with leaving a broken relationship, having my special needs son only 50% of the time, 3 close friends dying within a year of each other, then to top it off having a series of unfortunate events which has caused a few job changes. This current job is my longest one in 2years now. It is a solid job that isn't going anywhere and i am plugged in at. I also recently purchased a new truck (it is the nicest vehicle i've ever owned). My current relationship has its struggles like any other but it is extremely promising and I am looking forward to the future with her. So things are looking up.
However,
Around January 30th 2019 something happened to me, I experienced my first full blown panic attack. I've had anxiety issues many years ago but it seemed to had went away for 5 years. Then out of nowhere it hit me like a freight train while I was on the highway driving. Ever since the day I have had incredible amounts of anxiety attacks and a few more full blown panic attacks. I have taken counseling, tried medicine (which seemed to only make it worse) meditation, working out, going out shooting, focusing on hobbies, everything one would do that has anxiety/stress retention issues. I am finding a pretty solid way of handling the attacks when they happen now.
Now that you are somewhat up to speed,
I still struggle with long drives (anything on a highway for over 45mins usually has me looking for a way out of the car/truck), I am terrified of flying (this has been like this for day 1, some people are terrified of snakes, well for me its flying), what does this have to do with anything you ask? Well, I live in Michigan, 18hrs from my front step to Magic Kingdom parking lot.
When saying its Only 18hrs away, it doesn't sound that bad at all. Sounds like we could do that drive in day, we leave at 6am arrive at hotel by Midnight. Then you have food, bathroom, gas, and stretch the leg stops bump that up to a 22 - 24 hr drive. I know because my ex and I flew down and drove back.
Now with the anxiety and panic attacks I feel stuck and unable to go to my favorite place. The want to go is there. I even have two tickets (3 day passes we got from the nearby Disney Store). My significant other is more than excited to go, but it's my anxiety and fear of having a panic attack holding me back.
My question to everyone or anyone,
Am I alone with this? Its a very isolating feeling, just trying to find any thing that may help, or heck maybe someone else is in the same boat and needs a friend to relate to. I'm not sure which I am looking for but, something?
Thank you
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