OP, travel with very disabled adult DS, never count on anyone to offer seat or much else. Disney World does attract many families with folks with issues so there is likely a higher percentage of issues, visible or not. Add to that manners are not what they used to be. I am proactive in doing what we need for our safety.
We just got back from a trip. One day we got on a bus and had to stand, and I was surprised no one offered my special needs adult son a seat. Me and his Dad can stand, no problem. He has Downs, Autism, poor balance and depth perception, and has had ankle fusion surgeries. He actually did ok, to my surprise, but it was unusual no one offered, they usually do.(My husband was even carrying his huge folded up WC, it's a Convaid chair, like an enormous stroller that weighs 50 pounds. So no question he had mobility issues beyond a "typical" adult with DS)
We actually did not even realize the bus was so full until we boarded, we got there after it had been loaded up. We laughed it off, because he held on well and the driver was excellent, very smooth around the turns, thank goodness. Another driver and he may have gone flying despite our focus on his safety.
My DS is obviously disabled and to most severely disabled. He shouldn't be standing but most trips if I unfortunately get in a position that we are standing - NO ONE offers him a seat, not even teens. I experienced this very pregnant in NYC on three forms of transportation, every day until a week before I had him. It is what it is.
I know if we get on standing, we will be left standing. I have no expectations. I put him on a pole, I straddle his feet on either side and I wrap my arms around him holding the pole. Will I be able to hold him if need be, probably not but I'll tear something trying.
BUT that is my problem. Now, we usually tell the driver to go on, and we'll wait. It does seem another bus usually comes quickly after that so I wonder if they message ahead as they usually seem to feel bad he can't get on. Never have they asked someone to give him their seat. And that is fine. Now if we are seated and one of my other kids are with me, you can bet their butts jump up and offer others their seat.
How’d you manage that? Nobody is supposed to board at the middle other than the folks in ECVs.
I'm not sure supersnoop. I didn't know it was odd, there was a cm outside the bus ushering people on.
Last trip we did it several times. I thought it was strange, DS and I were looking at each other like "did they tell us to do it". When lines are long it loads the bus SO much faster. Folks just won't go to back of bus then those coming later start standing rather than walk back ... but forcing folks in the back door you force them into the back of the bus. Was so much more efficient. Especially on the double buses.
I find it very hard to believe that people would go to the trouble of renting from an offsite company, paying for each day, simply to board the bus first. Knowing that if there are 3 scooters, they have to wait for the next bus. That happens many times, especially during rush hours.
Edit to add: These people must not be very smart. Or at least they don't realize the disadvantages.
Happens often. Some even own them because you can buy used ones quite cheap now. I saw a few younger couples at Epcot (who had no issues hoofing it around at places) with their cute scooters all decorated, decked out with "trunks", baskets, horns etc. One couple even in matching outfits. They were flying way faster than they should have and several times we saw them putting down the drinks. I thought you weren't allowed to drink and drive them. Saw one guy with a fancy cup holder on front with a huge beer, clearly drunk. Happens all the time, it's not just the bus, it's a built in seat anywhere; parades, food & wine, fireworks etc ... it allows you to buzz all over without getting tired or the old knee aching etc. The ones with sun roofs keep you shaded, you can attach fans. You don't have to carry a bag. Buses are just an added perk.
I've ridden a lot of Disney buses and never once, not a single time, have I seen a driver ask a passenger to get up from their seat, or request someone to volunteer to give up their seat, UNLESS it was someone seated in the fold up seats and they needed to load an ECV. I'm not so sure the drivers are speaking up on behalf of passengers much these days
I've never in my 25 years of staying on property never seen a bus driver ask anyone to get up. Only to keep moving back.
Mobility scooters and wheelchairs are boarded first for 3 reasons:
- Safety -- the more people that are on the bus, the more difficult it is to maneuver the scooter on the bus, and the more likely it is to hit someone or run over someone's feet.
- Efficiency -- if the driver has to move people out of the fold-up seats, it can take a while, especially if there are small children or lots of carry-on items involved, slowing down the loading for everyone. If people have to be temporarily off-loaded to make room to maneuver, it slows things down even more.
- Courtesy -- drivers would rather not have to ask people to stand or change seats if it can be avoided.
I agree that allowing 6 to board with the scooter is too much, but sometimes enforcing even that causes an argument. Disney always tries to avoid arguments with Guests.
Have no problem with them loading first, it would make no sense to do it otherwise. Should they limit how many guests are with them to less than 5-6, yes. (and we've seen more) Why? Once that seat folds you lose 3 seats, add 6 guests that is 9 seats. Two ECV could be 18 seats. Not really fair. Let each have 1-2 guests load in back with them OR >>>>>>>>>>>>>>
I have seen times when scooters and wheelchairs are held until the rest of their party makes it through the queue, but it requires the queue to be configured that way and extra staffing to make it work. And we all know how Disney feels about extra staffing.
OR you handle it this way, have seen it at MK often. It works great, it's fair to all, and it would resolve much of the complaining you get from what is often considered special preference. Folks could be waiting 45 minutes for a bus but an ECV rolls up as bus does and they load? Not quite fair. The new bus depot has wide queues that they can roll through. On the last turn they are let through the chain to the ECV load location which will line up with the door. This also allows buses to leave without losing a huge number of seats to ECVs if they all go direct to the load spot. Spacing them out in the queue spaces them out on buses. This makes the impact of family with them no issue, they waited in line. I think if Disney made effort to make them all set up like this we would never see this issue on threads.