Disney trip....the good, the bad and the ugly

Sabeking

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Have you ever built up a trip in your mind?! Thinking this will be the best ever and the majority of it went wrong.

We went to DW on the 14th with my two teenage daughters,their friend, my husband and me. It began with my daughter getting her period on the way down. It was a tough one with lots of tears and emotions running high. The girls ended up fighting. The girl that came with us received a phone call from her grandfather while on the trip. He found out she was in Florida and wanted to see her. He planned on meeting her the day we went to Magic Kingdom. She has not seen him in six years (family issues) and then he never showed up. That set the tone for her most of the trip. The two days we were in the parks the fast pass plus on our Magic Bands would not work. Two in our party for some reason would not link to ours. We ended up spending about an hour a day at guest services. After getting them linked they still did not work. When checking out the crowd level when making reservations it was supposed to be the fourth slowest week. That was not the case at all. The popular rides were at about a 85-120 minute wait.

Now time for the cruise! At least we could relax! Got on the boat Monday. The cast off party had to be moved inside....rain. That would be the theme of this cruise...rain and a rocking boat! By Tuesday my husband was feeling not so great. He had a pain in his side. I encouraged him finally to visit the infirmary. After blood tests they were not sure but his blood pressure was up, white blood cell count up, jaundice and lots of pain. Not having a CT scan machine they could not pin point the problem, only take guesses. By this point the rest of us had terrible colds. The guest teen was crying, she was very homesick as she had never been away to this extent from her family. She was upset with me because I would not let her go to the adult pool and have alcohol. (Ok, sorry you are sixteen. Not an option.) She was not happy with checking in time to time on the ship.

By night three my husband was still in the infirmary. He missed our daughter's 16th birthday dinner and our rainy day at Cast Away Cay. Friday morning he was transported to Cape Canaveral hospital. We were there for about 8 hours. A CT scan showed inflammation around the bowels and abdomen. They decided to admit him. When we took him upstairs we met his roommate. This fellow was interesting. He welcomed us "to the best hospital in "eastern Florida." As he is giving us a warm welcome I notice this 75 year old had his family jewels out greeting us as well!:crazy2: my newly sixteen year old saw them too. This is where to good begins....just maybe this will keep her from wanting to delv into that world for quite awhile longer!!!

The doctor told us he would bring in a gastro specialist. He also told us off the record that he did not see an emergency situation occurring and we could drive home if we wanted. We decided to go with the off the record advice. At this point my husband has not eaten in 4 days. I drove all of us home, ten hours.:drive: I took my husband straight to the local ER. He was released Tuesday!!!:worship:
He had something I have never heard of...omental infarction. His abdomen tissues were twisted and blood circulation was cut off to the tissue so it began to die. He lost 8 pounds on the trip and I lost 2.

I cannot say enough about the doctor and his staff on the Dream. They were awesome as well as the people at Cape Canaveral hospital. Both were attentive, efficient and professional. I feel so blessed to be home safe. I appreciate my house and my routine life!!:thumbsup2
 
Have you ever built up a trip in your mind?! Thinking this will be the best ever and the majority of it went wrong.

We went to DW on the 14th with my two teenage daughters,their friend, my husband and me. It began with my daughter getting her period on the way down. It was a tough one with lots of tears and emotions running high. The girls ended up fighting. The girl that came with us received a phone call from her grandfather while on the trip. He found out she was in Florida and wanted to see her. He planned on meeting her the day we went to Magic Kingdom. She has not seen him in six years (family issues) and then he never showed up. That set the tone for her most of the trip. The two days we were in the parks the fast pass plus on our Magic Bands would not work. Two in our party for some reason would not link to ours. We ended up spending about an hour a day at guest services. After getting them linked they still did not work. When checking out the crowd level when making reservations it was supposed to be the fourth slowest week. That was not the case at all. The popular rides were at about a 85-120 minute wait.

Now time for the cruise! At least we could relax! Got on the boat Monday. The cast off party had to be moved inside....rain. That would be the theme of this cruise...rain and a rocking boat! By Tuesday my husband was feeling not so great. He had a pain in his side. I encouraged him finally to visit the infirmary. After blood tests they were not sure but his blood pressure was up, white blood cell count up, jaundice and lots of pain. Not having a CT scan machine they could not pin point the problem, only take guesses. By this point the rest of us had terrible colds. The guest teen was crying, she was very homesick as she had never been away to this extent from her family. She was upset with me because I would not let her go to the adult pool and have alcohol. (Ok, sorry you are sixteen. Not an option.) She was not happy with checking in time to time on the ship.

By night three my husband was still in the infirmary. He missed our daughter's 16th birthday dinner and our rainy day at Cast Away Cay. Friday morning he was transported to Cape Canaveral hospital. We were there for about 8 hours. A CT scan showed inflammation around the bowels and abdomen. They decided to admit him. When we took him upstairs we met his roommate. This fellow was interesting. He welcomed us "to the best hospital in "eastern Florida." As he is giving us a warm welcome I notice this 75 year old had his family jewels out greeting us as well!:crazy2: my newly sixteen year old saw them too. This is where to good begins....just maybe this will keep her from wanting to delv into that world for quite awhile longer!!!

The doctor told us he would bring in a gastro specialist. He also told us off the record that he did not see an emergency situation occurring and we could drive home if we wanted. We decided to go with the off the record advice. At this point my husband has not eaten in 4 days. I drove all of us home, ten hours.:drive: I took my husband straight to the local ER. He was released Tuesday!!!:worship:
He had something I have never heard of...omental infarction. His abdomen tissues were twisted and blood circulation was cut off to the tissue so it began to die. He lost 8 pounds on the trip and I lost 2.

I cannot say enough about the doctor and his staff on the Dream. They were awesome as well as the people at Cape Canaveral hospital. Both were attentive, efficient and professional. I feel so blessed to be home safe. I appreciate my house and my routine life!!:thumbsup2


:sad:

I am glad you are all ok!
Also glad that experience is over for you. Many one day, in many, many years you will be able to laugh at this.
Just the phrase "guest teen" makes me :sick:
 
:sad:

I am glad you are all ok!
Also glad that experience is over for you. Many one day, in many, many years you will be able to laugh at this.
Just the phrase "guest teen" makes me :sick:

I totally learned my lesson on the teen guest. A short weekend is fine but this was just too much.
 
Sounds like you held it together very well. :thumbsup2 :thumbsup2 The "teen guest" asking for permission to go to the adult pool to have adult beverages would have been the last straw for me. :rotfl2:

We've all had vacations that turned out to be less than perfect. Glad to hear that your DH is doing better. It could have been worse, that's for sure. You have the right attitude though. :thumbsup2
 
I totally learned my lesson on the teen guest. A short weekend is fine but this was just too much.

You said it sister! Boy can I relate. I did a two week trip with my DS14, his friend 13 yrs old, and his mom. We did one week at disney world, and a week on the disney fantasy cruise. O M G.....NEVER AGAIN! The boys were complete lunatics! Short trips with teens, YES. Long ones. NOOOO!
 
Yours is definitely worse than mine! We did have a trip last year that I had such big hopes for- then it turned into a huge fight over something small that just escalated from there. Needless to say I don't have a huge desire to go back any time soon.

These kinds of things just make you appreciate the good times more!
 
Have you ever built up a trip in your mind?! Thinking this will be the best ever and the majority of it went wrong.

We went to DW on the 14th with my two teenage daughters,their friend, my husband and me. It began with my daughter getting her period on the way down. It was a tough one with lots of tears and emotions running high. The girls ended up fighting. The girl that came with us received a phone call from her grandfather while on the trip. He found out she was in Florida and wanted to see her. He planned on meeting her the day we went to Magic Kingdom. She has not seen him in six years (family issues) and then he never showed up. That set the tone for her most of the trip. The two days we were in the parks the fast pass plus on our Magic Bands would not work. Two in our party for some reason would not link to ours. We ended up spending about an hour a day at guest services. After getting them linked they still did not work. When checking out the crowd level when making reservations it was supposed to be the fourth slowest week. That was not the case at all. The popular rides were at about a 85-120 minute wait.

Now time for the cruise! At least we could relax! Got on the boat Monday. The cast off party had to be moved inside....rain. That would be the theme of this cruise...rain and a rocking boat! By Tuesday my husband was feeling not so great. He had a pain in his side. I encouraged him finally to visit the infirmary. After blood tests they were not sure but his blood pressure was up, white blood cell count up, jaundice and lots of pain. Not having a CT scan machine they could not pin point the problem, only take guesses. By this point the rest of us had terrible colds. The guest teen was crying, she was very homesick as she had never been away to this extent from her family. She was upset with me because I would not let her go to the adult pool and have alcohol. (Ok, sorry you are sixteen. Not an option.) She was not happy with checking in time to time on the ship.

By night three my husband was still in the infirmary. He missed our daughter's 16th birthday dinner and our rainy day at Cast Away Cay. Friday morning he was transported to Cape Canaveral hospital. We were there for about 8 hours. A CT scan showed inflammation around the bowels and abdomen. They decided to admit him. When we took him upstairs we met his roommate. This fellow was interesting. He welcomed us "to the best hospital in "eastern Florida." As he is giving us a warm welcome I notice this 75 year old had his family jewels out greeting us as well!:crazy2: my newly sixteen year old saw them too. This is where to good begins....just maybe this will keep her from wanting to delv into that world for quite awhile longer!!!

The doctor told us he would bring in a gastro specialist. He also told us off the record that he did not see an emergency situation occurring and we could drive home if we wanted. We decided to go with the off the record advice. At this point my husband has not eaten in 4 days. I drove all of us home, ten hours.:drive: I took my husband straight to the local ER. He was released Tuesday!!!:worship:
He had something I have never heard of...omental infarction. His abdomen tissues were twisted and blood circulation was cut off to the tissue so it began to die. He lost 8 pounds on the trip and I lost 2.

I cannot say enough about the doctor and his staff on the Dream. They were awesome as well as the people at Cape Canaveral hospital. Both were attentive, efficient and professional. I feel so blessed to be home safe. I appreciate my house and my routine life!!:thumbsup2

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That just sounds like a train wreck sorry.

The worst wasn't a trip to dw it was a stop at dtd and the evil T Rex food tried to kill me.
 
That guest teen would never come with me anywhere again. Aside from the grandfather thing, which I'll give her as far as being upsetting) the rest of her behavior was just bad bratty behavior, plain and simple.

Glad DH is OK.
 
Have you ever built up a trip in your mind?! Thinking this will be the best ever and the majority of it went wrong.

We went to DW on the 14th with my two teenage daughters,their friend, my husband and me. It began with my daughter getting her period on the way down. It was a tough one with lots of tears and emotions running high. The girls ended up fighting. The girl that came with us received a phone call from her grandfather while on the trip. He found out she was in Florida and wanted to see her. He planned on meeting her the day we went to Magic Kingdom. She has not seen him in six years (family issues) and then he never showed up. That set the tone for her most of the trip. The two days we were in the parks the fast pass plus on our Magic Bands would not work. Two in our party for some reason would not link to ours. We ended up spending about an hour a day at guest services. After getting them linked they still did not work. When checking out the crowd level when making reservations it was supposed to be the fourth slowest week. That was not the case at all. The popular rides were at about a 85-120 minute wait.

Now time for the cruise! At least we could relax! Got on the boat Monday. The cast off party had to be moved inside....rain. That would be the theme of this cruise...rain and a rocking boat! By Tuesday my husband was feeling not so great. He had a pain in his side. I encouraged him finally to visit the infirmary. After blood tests they were not sure but his blood pressure was up, white blood cell count up, jaundice and lots of pain. Not having a CT scan machine they could not pin point the problem, only take guesses. By this point the rest of us had terrible colds. The guest teen was crying, she was very homesick as she had never been away to this extent from her family. She was upset with me because I would not let her go to the adult pool and have alcohol. (Ok, sorry you are sixteen. Not an option.) She was not happy with checking in time to time on the ship.

By night three my husband was still in the infirmary. He missed our daughter's 16th birthday dinner and our rainy day at Cast Away Cay. Friday morning he was transported to Cape Canaveral hospital. We were there for about 8 hours. A CT scan showed inflammation around the bowels and abdomen. They decided to admit him. When we took him upstairs we met his roommate. This fellow was interesting. He welcomed us "to the best hospital in "eastern Florida." As he is giving us a warm welcome I notice this 75 year old had his family jewels out greeting us as well!:crazy2: my newly sixteen year old saw them too. This is where to good begins....just maybe this will keep her from wanting to delv into that world for quite awhile longer!!!

The doctor told us he would bring in a gastro specialist. He also told us off the record that he did not see an emergency situation occurring and we could drive home if we wanted. We decided to go with the off the record advice. At this point my husband has not eaten in 4 days. I drove all of us home, ten hours.:drive: I took my husband straight to the local ER. He was released Tuesday!!!:worship:
He had something I have never heard of...omental infarction. His abdomen tissues were twisted and blood circulation was cut off to the tissue so it began to die. He lost 8 pounds on the trip and I lost 2.

I cannot say enough about the doctor and his staff on the Dream. They were awesome as well as the people at Cape Canaveral hospital. Both were attentive, efficient and professional. I feel so blessed to be home safe. I appreciate my house and my routine life!!:thumbsup2

To answer your first question: Yes! My first trip to WDW (and only one, so far) was with my DH, MIL, BIL and his wife and kid... I am a Disneyland veteran and was SOO excited for this trip.

WORST. TRIP. EVER. I had planned to write up a trip report for these boards (took detailed notes and organized pictures and everything) but it was SO bad that i scrapped the report.

However, your trip definitely takes the cake! I can't imagine dealing with a medical emergency on a vacation... ugh! :crazy2: Here's hoping your next trip will be extra magical - you've earned it! pixiedust:
 
WOW!! This sounds like it could be made into a bad Lifetime made for TV movie! So sorry the whole vacation was a bust!
 
That is pretty bad. Especially the medical issues for your DH - that really could have turned south. Did your DH have to be evacuated off the ship?

The bratty teen had me puzzled, though. Didn't taking a "fifth" person make things much more difficult for you in terms of room space and expense? On the cruise you would have needed either a suite or two rooms. We cruised with a large group and one of the teens brought a friend - they wound up in a snit for most of the trip and it got uncomfortable within their group.

We were fortunate a few years back we chanced it bringing three friends (two brothers and one girl, all neighborhood friends) with our family on an out of state vacation at the lake and fortunately it worked out pretty well with only one minor issue between the girls. But this summer we took the same girl to an event for one night and her behavior made us question whether it would ever happen again, lol.
 
That is pretty bad. Especially the medical issues for your DH - that really could have turned south. Did your DH have to be evacuated off the ship?

The bratty teen had me puzzled, though. Didn't taking a "fifth" person make things much more difficult for you in terms of room space and expense? On the cruise you would have needed either a suite or two rooms. We cruised with a large group and one of the teens brought a friend - they wound up in a snit for most of the trip and it got uncomfortable within their group.

We were fortunate a few years back we chanced it bringing three friends (two brothers and one girl, all neighborhood friends) with our family on an out of state vacation at the lake and fortunately it worked out pretty well with only one minor issue between the girls. But this summer we took the same girl to an event for one night and her behavior made us question whether it would ever happen again, lol.

Luckily he was able to stay on the boat. They said as long as he was stable they could handle it, but could medi vac him if need be.

My girls are 15 months apart and the friend was mutual so we kind of got two for the price of one. We did have two rooms. The girls were going to stay together and then my husband and myself in the other room. My husband ended up in the infirmary most of the time. I moved my 16 to our original room while I stayed with the 15 year old and the guest. My 16 year said she couldn't take the guests complaining anymore. I went along with it because it was her birthday.
 
Holy cow. That sounds like a nightmare from beginning to end. Your experience puts my DHs recent hospitalization in perspective. I'm glad your DH made it through.
 
Oh...here's another perk. I saved 300.00! The parasailing was cancelled due to rain and high winds! Lol!:lmao:
 
I just can't get past the Welcome to the best hospital in Eastern FL guy--Some things, once seen, can never be unseen. :eek:
 
Man, I've just got one thing to say: I feel your pain sister!!!!

About 5 years ago, our extended family took what we lovingly (cough cough cough) refer to as "The Cruise from Hell." Rather than go into too many details lets just leave it at this:

One night (actually more like 1:00 a.m. honestly) my then 19-year old daughter actually made a run for it away from our room, down the hallway.

My brother made chase.

My husband would have gone but he was standing there in his boxers and it felt like the wrong thing to do in that state.

My then 18-year old son was sitting on the floor in the hallway - practically in tears over the situation trying to figure it all out.

I was in our room seriously researching how we could get said daughter on a plane back home once we got to our first island location.

My childless sister was hanging around totally judging me and my parenting skills.

That scenario pretty much sums up the entire cruise. What I will say, on the bright side, we've since taken quite a few wonderful family vacations. My daughter is now a 25-year old RN - and she's actually a pleasure to be with, at home and on vacation. When it was happening I absolutely NEVER thought it was something I could actually joke about. It was truly a horrible experience.

In a couple of years (hopefully) you'll be able to look at it as just a really crazy story that you can tell. When I think back to how I was feeling during and right after that trip though . . .

Here's to hoping your next vacation absolutely surpasses all your hopes and plans!!!!
 
Man, I've just got one thing to say: I feel your pain sister!!!!

About 5 years ago, our extended family took what we lovingly (cough cough cough) refer to as "The Cruise from Hell." Rather than go into too many details lets just leave it at this:

One night (actually more like 1:00 a.m. honestly) my then 19-year old daughter actually made a run for it away from our room, down the hallway.

My brother made chase.

My husband would have gone but he was standing there in his boxers and it felt like the wrong thing to do in that state.

My then 18-year old son was sitting on the floor in the hallway - practically in tears over the situation trying to figure it all out.

I was in our room seriously researching how we could get said daughter on a plane back home once we got to our first island location.

My childless sister was hanging around totally judging me and my parenting skills.

That scenario pretty much sums up the entire cruise. What I will say, on the bright side, we've since taken quite a few wonderful family vacations. My daughter is now a 25-year old RN - and she's actually a pleasure to be with, at home and on vacation. When it was happening I absolutely NEVER thought it was something I could actually joke about. It was truly a horrible experience.

In a couple of years (hopefully) you'll be able to look at it as just a really crazy story that you can tell. When I think back to how I was feeling during and right after that trip though . . .

Here's to hoping your next vacation absolutely surpasses all your hopes and plans!!!!

Thank you:goodvibes
 

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