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Obviously it is important to consider your feelings about the particular resorts as most likely you will be picking your travel dates, booking your home resort at 11 months, and then seeing where you can move to at 7 months. You want to be sure that you will be happy with your home resort in case there is nothing available to switch to. Keep in mind that the vast majority of people utilizing the DVC system do so for studios. They are consistently the first to book and offer the least flexibility.
Quite frankly, I would not even consider buying BCV direct. At $225 per point all of the value has been priced out of the contract. The same goes for BWV but to a slightly lesser extent. Poly is not a bad choice but the delta between direct and resale is roughly $80 per point...I'm not sure how to justify that. So that leaves OKW, which is one of the two resorts I would even consider buying direct (the other being SSR). That said, I know your initial experience was a bit tumultuous, but I wouldn't be so quick to rule out resale. Based on what you've said in previous posts I actually think the best fit for you is Poly resale, assuming you can book your stays at the 11-month mark. Even if you have to use cash to book your wedding reservation, it might be the better long term play. Once you do more research I don't think you will be as scared of the resale process as you might have been. Plus, if the timing works out and you do get your dates, you can simply cancel your cash reservation and use your DVC instead. Good luck!