This didn't make me mad, so much as. . .well.
I told dear niece and nephew months and months ago that I would give them money for the Ren faire and buy their tickets to the Ren faire for their Christmas, so that's what I did.
Well, DB told me the Thursday before Christmas that he and the kids had decided to go to Dollywood the day after Christmas. In his words, it's better than sitting around the house feeling sorry for themselves. (His DW passed a little after Xmas two years ago.) He also mentioned they'd been cold last year (they decided to go on Christmas last year!) and that it was predicted to be v.v.cold this year.
I'd picked up a good snowboarder's parka (a good polartec fleece one) that looked more or less new at the thrift store and had a brand new men's cashmere cardigan that wasn't doing me any good in the closet. The year she died I gave my DSIL a red cashmere cardigan that I knew was still hanging in her closet, and I gave dear nephew a good cashmere sweater a couple of years ago. Dear brother and I talked. Niece didn't have a warm coat and he didn't a warm sweater. He'd give niece her momma's cardigan (he has just started giving away some of her clothes, one piece at a time.), and he'd take the new cashmere cardigan. Niece would get the parka. They would buy long underwear, gloves, hats and scarves when they got there.
So I mailed off the parka and the cardigan two day mail. It got there on Monday. And of all things, niece and nephew took this to be extra Christmas! Nephew claimed the cashmere cardigan and niece took the parka. (And was apparently, I found out third hand, quite dubious about it - it was brown with teal accents. She's a black coat kind of person - but I strongly suspect that when the first wave of cold hit her she quickly became a fleece parka with a warm hood, color be darned, kind of person.
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My only question is what did my DB do for a warm sweater? I'm guessing he got stuck with nephew's old cardigan, which, to be fair, is more my brother's style and a cardigan is more my nephew's style. . .but still.
Still. Hopefully they stayed warm. I'll get DB and nephew warm parkas for next year's trips when I find really good ones at the thrift, and of course they'll have the underwear, hats, gloves and scarves saved back for their annual visits. (You don't wear those in our part of Louisiana. I keep one set of gloves, a hat, and a scarf in my drawer along with one good warm winter coat for trips to Northerly climes in winter - and to me, Dollywood does not count. MA, Eastern Washington, Idaho, Minnesota, Illinois - now THOSE are northerly climes - but if you've never really been out of our part of the world in winter. . .)