My DD is 18 now, she has been thru a series of illness' over the last 4 years. She has been left with MANY scars, from many operations on her knees, hips, abdomen, hand, arm. But what people stare at, is her skin, steroids left her with severe stretch marks. She has them over much of her body, people in public only see it on her arms and legs of course. She is not overweight now, but her skin shows the stretch marks and they will never go away (they have faded). It looks unusual, esp. in combination with so many scars.
When she finally returned to the last month of senior year, in June, the stares REALLY bugged her. NOT from the students, from TEACHERS! She came home SO annoyed, so we tried to brainstorm a response. The one she choose, was one I only said as a joke....... If the stare was at her legs, she would look down, following their gaze, and slap at her legs, and yell "what is it? Is is a BUG??" and the teacher would then look at her face and say "no", and DD would say, "then what were you staring at??" or something to that effect..... I know, it is a little over the top, but she liked this one, I guess it gave some power back to HER. the teachers would usually just walk away.
We go to WDW next week, and I hope she is a little understanding and not too confrontational/ kids staring she understands, it is adults that tick her off. And it is not a double take that is the issue, it is long, hard, stares. We will also have DS, who uses a bright red Convaid chair at WDW (Downs, Autism) so some of the attention will be on staring at HIM, I suppose
He does not know or care about staring, so no big deal.