Love Tink
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- Jan 14, 2011
So why do women care? I just don't get it.
Since you asked...
I have three boys (one of whom is 9). So I'm not worried about a daughter being embarrassed by a boy seeing her in the bathroom, and I personally lost all sense of modesty around my third kid.
But whenever this issue comes up, my immediate response is to feel really, really, really bad for any boy whose mom is dragging him into the bathroom with her after about kindergarten age. I think that's a lot of the reaction - not so much concern about what the boy might do in the bathroom, but concern for any boy who is being babied and smothered to the point that he literally isn't even trusted to take care of his bathroom needs by himself. (And since the question gets asked on a public forum, people feel free to express this concern, whereas they might not express it out loud in the actual bathroom.)
If you can't allow your fourth grader to go to the bathroom by himself, or teach him how to confidently be independent from you, you're well on your way to making him into the weirdo that future moms will fear.