RedAngie
Sea Level Lady
- Joined
- Sep 10, 2015
I also know a couple that has been "engaged" for over 30 years. Both of them were their parents' primary caregivers, and they also come from very different socioeconomic backgrounds, and they don't have a lot of mutual friends for that reason. They both live in our city, about 7 miles apart, in homes they inherited, and as far as I know, have no plans to actually marry or ever move in together. (They do work together, so they are together every day.) I have to admit that I think it's kind of odd to tell people you are engaged when you really have no intention of ever marrying.
I know of a couple, friends of my aunt, who have been “going together” for close to 60 years now. They stayed together even when he got another woman pregnant and married her briefly. As far as I know, they never lived together and don’t claim that they’re engaged.
My mother’s friend became a widow at about age 45, then a few years later she met a widower “Gentleman Friend.” They “kept company” for about 30 years until he died, taking long vacations together, etc.,but they always lived apart.