abminer
Mouseketeer
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- Jul 11, 2005
DS turned one two weeks before our recent trip. We wouldn't have taken him quite so young, but we joined a group of my extended family and it was a great opportunity for him to spend time with his cousins (it was the first WDW trip for all the kids). We did make some great memories, but we also added to our list of worst public meltdowns.
DS is usually very outgoing, curious, has no fear of strangers, eats like a horse... we thought he'd handle it well. Dniece 5 is usually shy, a scaredy cat... These two kids often reacted opposite of what we all expected.
You know your kid(s) and only you can judge if they're ready for a trip to the World. But here I'll share some things that DS liked and didn't like and explain what I wished we'd done to maybe help someone else going with a child this age:
1. The characters at Chef Mickey's may have given DS PTSD. He ate a lot and seemed interested in watching the characters from a far, but Mickey approaching him triggered abject terror. Every other fur character he saw from then on was a trigger for tears. We all know that some kids like characters and others don't, but I wish we had kept them at safer distance for the first couple days then maybe tried a closer encounter. And yes, we showed him videos of fur characters (Disney sing a long) for months before our trip. I also wish we'd tried some face characters first, but after the Mickey incident we were too scared to try.
2. DS has never been afraid of the dark and for the most part wasn't at WDW, but the only ride he cried on was Peter Pan. Tip* watch the clock, is your baby due for a bottle, milk or a snack in the next 15 min? We had an FP+ but should have just waited until he'd eaten because we still don't know what upset him, maybe getting close to snack time he was just extra sensitive. And speaking of meal times...
3. DS threw mega tantrums at Pecos Bill and Contempo Cafe. We endured a long wait at Contempo (issue with being told they could get us a non-menu item for DS from Chef Mickey's due to an allergy but then it taking 30 min) and long lines at PB (even though we ordered through the app) that pushed past DS' normal meal times. He was so inconsolable at Contempo by the time our food came that we had to take it all to go and carry him out screaming, too.
3. Our whole group took afternoon nap/pool breaks every day. But DS still takes morning naps too much of the time. We shouldn't have tried to make rope drop. We thought he'd just nap in the stroller, but didn't when we expected to. DS and Dnephew 18 months wouldn't sleep when we put them down at normal times, but would fall asleep in carriers or strollers at odd times so they were always off schedule despite our best efforts. I wish we'd split from our group more, attempted morning naps in the room, and stacked our FP+s in the middle of the day when he's most alert at home.
4. Being confined in a carrier or stroller so much was hard on DS. He's very active, but only able to take a few steps on his own so even our attempts at using play spaces failed because he got bowled over. We stayed at BLT and they have a community room with games, and movies. It didn't dawn on us until our trip was almost over to take him there before hitting a park so he could get some energy out crawling around in a safe space. If crowd levels weren't so high in the parks we could have used open, grassy areas more.
There were things he did enjoy. He never giggled on a ride, but he was clearly engaged on these: Pooh, Little Mermaid (why is the soundtrack so loud in there though?), Nemo/The Seas, FEA, NRJ, and IASM was the clear favorite. Of the food we tried, the Chicken & fish nuggets at CHH, dinner food at Chef Mickey's and plain Dole Whips were favorites. He was very visually engaged at BOG if not too interested in the food. And the Mitsukoshi department store in Japan was fun for him, lots to see. He really loved his first haircut at the Harmony Barber Shop - it's very small so no real crowd around to freak him out.
Other considerations:
*we thought to bring outlet covers for our room, but nothing to keep the little boys from opening the cabinets and drawers. We had a couple pinched fingers. But maybe it's just the fixtures at BLT/CR that are so alluring. Still I wished I'd thought to pack some cabinet locks.
*we should have packed some PJs and an overnight diaper in a carry on instead of just a change of clothes and regular stuff. Our bags showed up from ME about 6 hours after our flight landed, which was past bedtime so they all slept in their clothes.
DS came home with a few stuffed animals and what has turned into an awful cold.
We're not trying this again for at least 3 years! But I wish all you parents of babies and young toddlers luck.
DS is usually very outgoing, curious, has no fear of strangers, eats like a horse... we thought he'd handle it well. Dniece 5 is usually shy, a scaredy cat... These two kids often reacted opposite of what we all expected.
You know your kid(s) and only you can judge if they're ready for a trip to the World. But here I'll share some things that DS liked and didn't like and explain what I wished we'd done to maybe help someone else going with a child this age:
1. The characters at Chef Mickey's may have given DS PTSD. He ate a lot and seemed interested in watching the characters from a far, but Mickey approaching him triggered abject terror. Every other fur character he saw from then on was a trigger for tears. We all know that some kids like characters and others don't, but I wish we had kept them at safer distance for the first couple days then maybe tried a closer encounter. And yes, we showed him videos of fur characters (Disney sing a long) for months before our trip. I also wish we'd tried some face characters first, but after the Mickey incident we were too scared to try.
2. DS has never been afraid of the dark and for the most part wasn't at WDW, but the only ride he cried on was Peter Pan. Tip* watch the clock, is your baby due for a bottle, milk or a snack in the next 15 min? We had an FP+ but should have just waited until he'd eaten because we still don't know what upset him, maybe getting close to snack time he was just extra sensitive. And speaking of meal times...
3. DS threw mega tantrums at Pecos Bill and Contempo Cafe. We endured a long wait at Contempo (issue with being told they could get us a non-menu item for DS from Chef Mickey's due to an allergy but then it taking 30 min) and long lines at PB (even though we ordered through the app) that pushed past DS' normal meal times. He was so inconsolable at Contempo by the time our food came that we had to take it all to go and carry him out screaming, too.
3. Our whole group took afternoon nap/pool breaks every day. But DS still takes morning naps too much of the time. We shouldn't have tried to make rope drop. We thought he'd just nap in the stroller, but didn't when we expected to. DS and Dnephew 18 months wouldn't sleep when we put them down at normal times, but would fall asleep in carriers or strollers at odd times so they were always off schedule despite our best efforts. I wish we'd split from our group more, attempted morning naps in the room, and stacked our FP+s in the middle of the day when he's most alert at home.
4. Being confined in a carrier or stroller so much was hard on DS. He's very active, but only able to take a few steps on his own so even our attempts at using play spaces failed because he got bowled over. We stayed at BLT and they have a community room with games, and movies. It didn't dawn on us until our trip was almost over to take him there before hitting a park so he could get some energy out crawling around in a safe space. If crowd levels weren't so high in the parks we could have used open, grassy areas more.
There were things he did enjoy. He never giggled on a ride, but he was clearly engaged on these: Pooh, Little Mermaid (why is the soundtrack so loud in there though?), Nemo/The Seas, FEA, NRJ, and IASM was the clear favorite. Of the food we tried, the Chicken & fish nuggets at CHH, dinner food at Chef Mickey's and plain Dole Whips were favorites. He was very visually engaged at BOG if not too interested in the food. And the Mitsukoshi department store in Japan was fun for him, lots to see. He really loved his first haircut at the Harmony Barber Shop - it's very small so no real crowd around to freak him out.
Other considerations:
*we thought to bring outlet covers for our room, but nothing to keep the little boys from opening the cabinets and drawers. We had a couple pinched fingers. But maybe it's just the fixtures at BLT/CR that are so alluring. Still I wished I'd thought to pack some cabinet locks.
*we should have packed some PJs and an overnight diaper in a carry on instead of just a change of clothes and regular stuff. Our bags showed up from ME about 6 hours after our flight landed, which was past bedtime so they all slept in their clothes.
DS came home with a few stuffed animals and what has turned into an awful cold.
We're not trying this again for at least 3 years! But I wish all you parents of babies and young toddlers luck.