bethbuchall
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- Jul 10, 2003
Problem is, you have a girl. I have 2 boys and 1 girl. Boys are different, my Dr calls it boy brain. She has 6 boys all in college or older.
OP, My son has the same problem he is 13 and in pre AP classes. He sometimes just forgets to do homework or turn it in. Consequences don't matter to a boy with boy brain. It works for a little while but then boy brain comes back again.
I asked my pediatrician about this, she laughed and told me you know how all babies start out as XX and to become a boy it becomes XY, well the part that falls off to become the Y is their brain, and not to worry, it grows back eventually. Like I said she has 6. Almost everyone I have talked to, especially ones that are smart, seem to have this problem. It is like their brain just isn't in gear yet.
Apparently then I am raising 3 girls even though by all appearances two are male. I agree that there are differences, but responsibility to complete homework is not one of them.