Since we're on the subject. I'm taking care of an 88 year old woman, who is pretty much failing. She still lives by herself..and has alienated the one son who lives in the area....she doesn't have contact with him at all. I'm the only one she has here. Anyhow...I am so afraid that one of these days I'm going to get over to her place and find that she has passed on....my question is ...what do I do if that happens? When her husband passed away 3 years ago...hospice was there...they called the funeral palor and then he was cremated. I know that she's paid for her cremation....but I have no idea to who or where...she says it's in her safe. I do not have access to the safe - and I hate to ask her, because she is not an easy person to deal with.
Sorry if I've rambled on..but this has been on my mind so heavily lately and when I saw this thread...I thought I'd maybe ask and maybe find out what to do. I don't to steal the thread or anything...believe me, but I have never seen another opportunity to ask something like this.
Thank you for any help you can offer, and thank you for listening. Barb
Sorry if I've rambled on..but this has been on my mind so heavily lately and when I saw this thread...I thought I'd maybe ask and maybe find out what to do. I don't to steal the thread or anything...believe me, but I have never seen another opportunity to ask something like this.
Thank you for any help you can offer, and thank you for listening. Barb