NHKristy76
Senior Mousketeer
- Joined
- Jan 18, 2009
Hello! I'm looking for some thoughts on a hot-button issue... Hopefully we can all be adults and handle the discussion.
I'm going to WDW with my friend and our two daughters, age 12 and 11. Both girls have cell phones, have been to The World several times, and are very responsible and mature so I'm wondering how much freedom we should allow them during our vacation.
The question then becomes how much independence is enough but not too much?
For instance, we are staying Club Level. Is it okay to let them head down a few minutes before us?
Should we let them get their own table at a TS restaurant? (We have done this at a restaurant close to home - given them their own money and let them experience the whole thing without our intervention. We were in the same restaurant and could see them. We were impressed with their behavior and interactions - the waitstaff praised them too!)
What are your thoughts about letting them go on a ride while we shop nearby? Or experience a different interaction?
Are there other scenarios we could permit that I'm not thinking of yet?
We plan to spend a lot of time with the girls but I know that they are at an age where they crave some independence. I just want my friend and I to talk before we leave home to ensure we are on the same page and set the parameters for what we are comfortable with!
I'm going to WDW with my friend and our two daughters, age 12 and 11. Both girls have cell phones, have been to The World several times, and are very responsible and mature so I'm wondering how much freedom we should allow them during our vacation.
The question then becomes how much independence is enough but not too much?
For instance, we are staying Club Level. Is it okay to let them head down a few minutes before us?
Should we let them get their own table at a TS restaurant? (We have done this at a restaurant close to home - given them their own money and let them experience the whole thing without our intervention. We were in the same restaurant and could see them. We were impressed with their behavior and interactions - the waitstaff praised them too!)
What are your thoughts about letting them go on a ride while we shop nearby? Or experience a different interaction?
Are there other scenarios we could permit that I'm not thinking of yet?
We plan to spend a lot of time with the girls but I know that they are at an age where they crave some independence. I just want my friend and I to talk before we leave home to ensure we are on the same page and set the parameters for what we are comfortable with!