luvsJack
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- Apr 3, 2007
When you say the courts have been told, is this in a family court proceeding regarding the children, or in court proceedings regarding her legal issues? Has there even been a family court proceeding involving your nieces, proceedings where they have a court appointed guardian ad litem to review their situation and advocate solely for them? Doesn't sound like there has been to me. I'm speaking from the perspective of a family court proceeding of abuse and neglect, a very different animal from anything arising out of criminal proceedings.
Yes, it was all discussed in the custody hearing when bil was alive and got custody and again when bil died and mil got custody. Her record is what gave mil custody. See, here is the thing, she has never actually neglected these children. Their basic needs are taken care of, they are not ignored, she does love them maybe in her own way or at least she likes to act like she does. She just cannot put their needs above her wants. Remember, I said she blows in and out of their lives. They may go 3-6 months without hearing from her and then its every day and then it tapers off or she gets mad or something and they don't hear from her for awhile. Its only when she is doing better that she comes and gets them, never when she is on drugs. When she is on one of her benders, she calls them but she doesn't come around them. Of course her calls are guilt trips and bad mouthing their dad or begging them for money so not the loving mommy type calls.