If you're not able to go get fitted right now, here's an online tool that asks you some questions and gives recommendations:
https://www.roadrunnersports.com/rrs/product/shoe-dog.jsp
Personally, I've run in the Saucony Guide, the New Balance 880, New Balance Zante, Brooks Levitate, and Nike Pegasus.
I think my favorite were an older version of the 880s (the last version I tried, the 880v8, didn't seem to agree with my feet, but I do want to try the new version because they changed the cushioning) and the Levitate. Both were fairly responsive (meaning I felt a little push back from them) and had enough cushioning to support my joints (which have had all sorts of issues). I like the Zantes a lot because they're the most responsive shoe I've ever worn, but they don't have enough cushion to support me at longer distances, so I don't wear them for anything longer than 5 miles.
I've also tried the Brooks Launch for a few runs and I liked the responsiveness, but similar to the Zante, I can't wear them for longer distances. I know a lot of people do wear them for distance, though, so if you're looking for a more affordable (like $100, which is cheap for running shoes) responsive shoe, I'd recommend trying the Launch.
The Guides weren't great for me because they provided more stability than I needed, but my sister loves them and really enjoys the cushion in the shoe.
Like you said, it's all subjective, but I hope you can get some good suggestions for shoes to try out!