I just got back and did the HDDR and Storybook.
Hands down, everyone would pick HDDR over Storybook any day, but our Dad got picked to participate in the show so that really sealed the deal for us loving it. This is our 3rd time doing HDDR. I have a bunch of kids in varying ages so this was the first year my younger daughter who was 3 the last time we did it could really appreciate it, but even my 15 year old son enjoyed it and appreciated the humor much more.
I'm not a laugh-out-loud type of person. I'm not a fan of slapstick humor, but the actors do a great job and keep you engaged. The singing is fun, the food is fun, and it keeps little ones entertained while they eat.
Storybook? Eh...we were HUGE fans of Artist Point and while the food is better than most character meals, it just didn't live up to our Artist Point expectations. Plus while the characters are cute and fun, it starts to get annoying that you can't put food in your mouth without someone showing up and having to take a picture, especially if the food is good and you all want to eat it. The Queen did not really interact with us other than to tell us to "go away now," as part of her being scary and we just went away because our desserts were on the table....
I think HDDR is something you have to do at least once. There is no way any of us could tell you to skip it because there is a much better chance that you would like it than not. One of my kids complained that they didn't feel like fried chicken but when it arrived, she gobbled it up, along with the corn bread (which would be nice if it were warmed) and the mashed potatoes which were surprisingly good.