Hisgirl
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Apr 8, 2011
This past year has been a doozy, to say the very least.
A. We moved, the downsize move, where you have to put your hand on every paper, every item and get rid of a lifetime of things.
B. We built a house. The experience was so stressful. Omg. So, so stressful.
C. My spouse retired. So he's home all the time and our income dropped by half.
D. My heart dog died unexpectedly. My heart is literally ripped in half.
E. We moved into a new house with so many large projects we had to manage.
F. And worst of all, my elderly parents, whom I cared for and was their CEO basically of their lives, both died...on the same day.
It's been a lot. In a short period of time.
Yes, I have a new neighborhood and I'm working on meeting folks. Yes, I have a new grandbaby in the works, Yay!!
But still.
I feel beat up. Worn out. I'm so tired. I feel like I just came home from a war.
How can I turn things around in my head after all of that? I know all the traditional counseling tips, I have a graduate degree in a couseling field. But making myself do it is another thing.
Happy to hear any tips and advice.
A. We moved, the downsize move, where you have to put your hand on every paper, every item and get rid of a lifetime of things.
B. We built a house. The experience was so stressful. Omg. So, so stressful.
C. My spouse retired. So he's home all the time and our income dropped by half.
D. My heart dog died unexpectedly. My heart is literally ripped in half.
E. We moved into a new house with so many large projects we had to manage.
F. And worst of all, my elderly parents, whom I cared for and was their CEO basically of their lives, both died...on the same day.
It's been a lot. In a short period of time.
Yes, I have a new neighborhood and I'm working on meeting folks. Yes, I have a new grandbaby in the works, Yay!!
But still.
I feel beat up. Worn out. I'm so tired. I feel like I just came home from a war.
How can I turn things around in my head after all of that? I know all the traditional counseling tips, I have a graduate degree in a couseling field. But making myself do it is another thing.
Happy to hear any tips and advice.