OK, just so we're clear, you are ok with being searched (bag and person) EVERY time you go to:
A grocery store
A mall
A post office
A restaurant
A hotel (whether for a stay or visit)
College building
A library
I honestly don't know whether I'm okay w/ being searched every time I enter a building or not. But I know I'm not okay w/ my luggage being searched every time I check into a hotel - x-ray I think I'd be okay w/, but not someone physically going through my bags & upsetting my carefully organized items.
Regarding bags being searched & the different things that are allowed through, a couple of weeks ago, we were at a venue where, upon entering, you had to empty your pockets & place any bags in a tray & then walk-through a metal detector. After you went through the metal detector, your personal bags were then searched before you were allowed into the venue.
DH & older DS forgot they had their pocket knives w/ them. After the metal detector security personnel carefully looked at & considered each knife, they were allowed through... w/ their pocket knives.
After we went through the metal detectors, DD & I went to separate tables for the bag check.
The security guy that looked through my bag opened the separate compartments himself & just gave a quick, cursory glance through my bag before letting me through.
DH & our 2 DSs were already through the ticket turnstiles & I was almost through when I happened to glance back & see that DD was still w/ the bag check.
The security gal that looked through DD's bag had DD open up the separate compartments & told her, "We're not allowed to touch your bag" - even though, at next table over, the security guy had opened my bag himself. DD had forgotten that she had a kubaton in her bag. (My friend sells "Damsel in Defense" products.) She also had a small pair of scissors in her bag. She was NOT allowed to take the kubaton into the venue & had to take it back to our vehicle. After consideration & consultation w/ the metal detector security personnel, she was allowed to keep the pair of scissors.
The kicker: I also had a pair of scissors in my bag to which the guy who was going through my bag never even gave a 2nd glance. I also had a small container of pepper spray in a pocket of my bag that he never opened - which I had completely forgotten about.
(Again, I have a friend who sells "Damsel in Defense" products. And, before people think I'm crazy for having scissors in my bag, I have a small pouch in my bag where I keep "office-type" supplies I might need - a small stapler, scissors, tape, & even paperclips. DD apparently also carries scissors in her bag. LOL!)
So... same venue & entering at the same time - DH & DS are each allowed through w/ a pocketknife. 2 different security personnel go through my bag & DD's bag w/ completely different methods. DD cannot get through w/ her kubaton, but her scissors are okay. I get through w/ a pair of scissors & pepper spray that the security never even sees.