It looks like OP retracted the question and I don’t mean to pile on, but I would just add on a positive note, you can still have a great cruise with long naps in the stateroom. Our son refused the nursery at that age, and we still had a blast. DH and I took turns staying in the room at naptime and after bedtime while the other went to a show, a spa treatment, adult pool etc. Only thing we had to cancel when it was clear nursery would not work was Palo, but we’ve been on subsequent cruises—as a reminder, it’s only a couple years until they are obsessed with the kids club and you’ll be begging them for family time! Plenty of time for date nights when the kiddo is a bit older.