Serena
<font color=navy>Not afraid of canned biscuits<br>
- Joined
- Aug 18, 1999
Okay, I'm feeling better today.
This is going to be long, so if you are reading this Jason, forgive me. lol
I've been thinking a lot yesterday and most of the night, and I'm thinking that I've been as blind as a bat and so has my dh.
This may sound like I'm off my rocker, or not. I'm not exactly tooo rational right now.
Here it is. My dh and his ex-friend Johnny had been best friends for about 10 years. Just the last year or two has he become an alcoholic. I think I have figured out why.
I think his wife has been planning this destruction of my marriage for a loong time. There's been times where I felt uncomfotable around her, I couldn't pin point why, and Eric never felt it. She made a point of letting me know that she doesn't like kids to be there.
She was ran out of a neighborhood because people got angry with her, it had to do with the husbands. She told us they were mistaken, that she likes to flirt, but she'd never do that. We were friends and we believed her. She couldn't have done that. They moved back in town and her marriage started getting worse. And every time Johnny would get angry, she'd call Eric to come and talk with him. Poor Betty. They were best friends and Eric could talk some sense into him.
Eric also is a great handyman and every time something needed to be fixed, he was right in there.
Johnny tried to tell me that I had to be careful, that things were going on that I didn't know about. I poo-pooed it as just ramblings from a drunk.
I think she has slowly but surely been trying to get my husband. And we did everything wrong. He basked in the attention, and I made it easy for her. We've made mistakes of our own and she's always been there happy and bubbly, full of admiration for my husband.
Johnny tried to tell Eric what was going on but he too just took it that Johnny was just being vindictive. Poor Betty.
And they have a son that needs male attention. He loves Eric. Eric is exactly what Drew needs right now, especially while Johnny is in so much trouble.
Eric lost his best friend to alcohol. Betty just stepped farther into the picture.
I know I can't put all of the blame on her. Eric made it easy for her, and so did I. She almost succeeded. She still may if I'm not careful. But I don't think so. I'm not wearing blinders anymore and I love my husband, warts and all.
She isn't going to win.
LOL, I'm feeling rather dangerous right now and it feels gooooood.
Now that that's all out. Am I crazy, wishful thinking, or may I be onto something?
I'll be back later to check for responses. thanks
This is going to be long, so if you are reading this Jason, forgive me. lol
I've been thinking a lot yesterday and most of the night, and I'm thinking that I've been as blind as a bat and so has my dh.
This may sound like I'm off my rocker, or not. I'm not exactly tooo rational right now.
Here it is. My dh and his ex-friend Johnny had been best friends for about 10 years. Just the last year or two has he become an alcoholic. I think I have figured out why.
I think his wife has been planning this destruction of my marriage for a loong time. There's been times where I felt uncomfotable around her, I couldn't pin point why, and Eric never felt it. She made a point of letting me know that she doesn't like kids to be there.
She was ran out of a neighborhood because people got angry with her, it had to do with the husbands. She told us they were mistaken, that she likes to flirt, but she'd never do that. We were friends and we believed her. She couldn't have done that. They moved back in town and her marriage started getting worse. And every time Johnny would get angry, she'd call Eric to come and talk with him. Poor Betty. They were best friends and Eric could talk some sense into him.
Eric also is a great handyman and every time something needed to be fixed, he was right in there.
Johnny tried to tell me that I had to be careful, that things were going on that I didn't know about. I poo-pooed it as just ramblings from a drunk.
I think she has slowly but surely been trying to get my husband. And we did everything wrong. He basked in the attention, and I made it easy for her. We've made mistakes of our own and she's always been there happy and bubbly, full of admiration for my husband.
Johnny tried to tell Eric what was going on but he too just took it that Johnny was just being vindictive. Poor Betty.
And they have a son that needs male attention. He loves Eric. Eric is exactly what Drew needs right now, especially while Johnny is in so much trouble.
Eric lost his best friend to alcohol. Betty just stepped farther into the picture.
I know I can't put all of the blame on her. Eric made it easy for her, and so did I. She almost succeeded. She still may if I'm not careful. But I don't think so. I'm not wearing blinders anymore and I love my husband, warts and all.
She isn't going to win.
LOL, I'm feeling rather dangerous right now and it feels gooooood.
Now that that's all out. Am I crazy, wishful thinking, or may I be onto something?
I'll be back later to check for responses. thanks