Plus4206 said:
i overheard a conversation a couple years ago between to older gentlemen that pretty much sums up my opinion of todays situation with children & parenting: He was telling how he notices when people make a comments like " Oh Jonnie is such a well behaved little boy..... " because years ago this behavior was just the norm. Back then you heard comments like " That Jonnie is such a brat....". The point he was making is that today a child that is a pleasure to be around is such an annomally that people take notice of it.
Very sad.
Part of the reason may be that children weren't permitted to be noticed years ago. My wife (who is in her mid-30s) still likes to tell the story about the aunt she dreaded having to visit. She and her two older brothers were told to stay in one corner of one room and go no further, and they were given empty toilet paper rolls to play with for the duration of the stay. They had to ask permission to use the bathroom, and expected to return to their "play corner" PROMPTLY.
The manner in which children were treated years ago often crossed the line into child abuse by today's standards. If you think slapping knuckles with rulers and otherwise ruling by fear would be a step in the right direction, then we'll just have to agree to disagree.
And while it may be the child that is causing my irratation, I know the blame lays directly on the shoulders of the parents.
Sounds like the naive POV I used to maintain before having children of my own.
Sorry, but no matter the quality of the parenting skills, kids have a way of being...kids!!! That means they occasionally throw temper tantrums when they don't get their way...they won't always eat the dinner placed in front of them...and they don't mind voicing their opinions on a particular topic, even when not asked.
No amount of parenting can turn a 4 year old into a mini-adult.
I, for one, certainly hope that the hundreds of parents surrounding me at WDW don't presume to judge my parenting skills just because they happen to witness the one "meltdown" my child may have during a trip. When I see other children doing that, my response is usually to grin and walk away, silently thankful that it's not my child THIS time.