PLEASE DON'T DO THIS!!! An 11 yo is not a grown woman she will see right through this - be yourself!! that is what won Mom over, not where or what you did but who you are. I entered the dating game at 45 and believe when I say trying to win over a teen or tween is gonna get you stuck. They are like sharks they smell blood in the water LOL! When I learned that the kids will either like me for me or they won't.
Take a deep breathe & relax. BTW love a hockey fan!!! See if there are any tourneys around, some are still doing small local ones.
Oh maybe instead of flowers or candy etc, who is her fave player? Maybe a T shirt or if she collects the NHL
Lego players? My DGD (8) loves collecting the Zambonis, it her thing with my DSO - they both love & play hockey