I don't think I'd say they were "bothered", but my kids were also disappointed in the candy they got. My 12yo didn't even ToT much after she saw that all she was getting was sticky stuff she can't eat with her braces, and Sassy Sours. The 6yo threw most of hers out after she ate the few she liked and the rest sat in the hotel room for a week.
Honestly, I was probably the most disappointed of the four of us!
I admit it, I love chocolate, and I had a great time ToT'ing for the first time in 30 years! I expected to have a few candies in the hotel room to munch on during our stay (we went to the party early in our trip). I didn't expect to receive mostly crap. Did it "bother" me? I guess it bothered me enough to talk about it here on the DIS, but not enough to complain to Disney or anything.
What I don't get is why some people seem so bothered that others didn't care for the candy that was handed out.
If someone posted that their chicken was dry at Teppan Edo, would they get responses like "if you're just going to Epcot for the chicken, you're missing out so much more that Epcot has to offer."
In both cases, it's just one aspect of the experience, and (in both cases, for me anyway
) it was definitely lacking in quality. One can discuss a shortcoming like this, without it being the main focus of their trip, and while having still had a great time overall at the party/park.