Growing up we went to Inzillos in Jackson, NJ. But any NY style will do, provided it's made well.
Pepperoni is the single best topping, but over the years I have learned to like other varieties. Still not a fan of olives and raw onions, but most other things work.
Where I now live is mostly Detroit-style, which can be good but doesn't compare to the NY style for me. Buddy's was bought out years ago and the quality has gone downhill. Green Lantern is my new go-to, with Crispelli's being good for the thinner, real-Italian style. Jet's is for when you just need something fast or have a good coupon. Not touching Little Caesars unless I get it for free at a Red Wings/Pistons game.
Deep dish is good every now and then but generally overrated.
California should just quit before it gets worse for them.
Tip: If you want garlic dipping sauce but your normal place doesn't offer it, you only need two ingredients: margarine and garlic powder. Start with 3 Tbsp of melted margarine and 1 tsp of garlic powder and adjust from there.