Good Response. We really want to go for a day to see if it is worth returning next year when my little one is almost 4 or to wait until she's older. I've repeatedly been told UO is for older kids/adults which is why we would only go for a day or two. We have all intentions of returning to UO eventually and can't wait to but I want to make sure it's worth our time with the age of our kids, thats all.
I think everyone here is just wanting you to have a rewarding time for your first visit and do not want you to be cheating yourself out of the whole experience.
I was just there with a big group that initially started out with 5, but grew to 16 by the time we left.
We had kids from 2-10 and adults from 24-88.
Nobody had a bad trip. But we did do 4 days with express pass.
The 2 yrs old mom took him off to play while switching up with us to do the rides herself. With express pass that was really easy. They do have child swap but with EP we never bothered.
Just thinking what I would do with half a day and a small child is not filling me with a lot of joy.
If your husband went off and let the child enjoy himself, that would be cheating the husband out of his fun unless just being in the park watching the child play would be enough.
It is pretty well a given your older child will not be up for the hulk or rip ride rocket which is the 2 main coasters.
The mummy is also pretty intense. The ride in diagon alley is a little bit coaster, but not intense and is a lot of fun.
Anyway, you will need to figure out how you are going to structure your time. Which park, figure out your priorities of what you really want to do, then hit the park running. Single rider lines can be your friend but can't be counted on to be open.
Anyway, have fun. You will probably go back.
btw, I do not think there is a lot of difference between a 2 and 4 yr old as far as the parks go.