I am at Disney World 5-6 weeks a year. I am now staying about 50/50 onsite/offsite because I am tiring of Disney's prices. Yes I love staying there and feel most the resorts show some imagineering but I go so often that it's just not that special anymore. We don't do all the resort stuff, we are always on the go and I am wanting more value. And Disney restaurants, pools and buses are becoming so crowded it's hard to feel like we used to. In May a Value resort rate was double per night than the 2 Bedroom HUGE newly and beautifully decorated condo I was at - 10 minute drive to the parks. There was NOTHING the Disney resort could offer me to justify it. At this point EMH is the best thing they can offer. I have no problem getting FP+ at 30 days, we even got 7DMT and A&E the day of (and that's not the first time). I always get the ADRs I want and I book at 60 days at the earliest. I have TIW and no way DDP can compete with that, I get free parking, I send packages to front gate to pick up when I leave, I have at least 15 magicbands so I really don't need more, I don't need to charge to my room I'll just carry my credit card. And let's not assume because I am in a condo I am slaving over a stove and keeping house. We didn't cook anything other than toast and we always eat in our rooms for breakfast anyway. It was nice to have a big fridge, nice to spread out, awesome that everyone got their own huge bed, nice to have two bathrooms, three televisions. Yes I did laundry, no big deal, toss a load when you leave and another when we come back and I liked bringing home clean clothes for a change.
I would venture MANY people, myself included, do not fly to Disney and have a car. Yes, I have stayed at Disney and never seen my car the entire trip but I will bet I can leave a park and be in my condo or offsite hotel before the Disney bus riders get back to their rooms. And if I'm at Bonnet Creek, I'm in bed. Staying offsite does not mean I can't be at rope drop either. I could care less about prepaying for meals (and I've done DDP many times). I'd rather use my TIW to save on food and alcohol, order appetizers and no desserts and still save money.
WOW......
Yes Disney resorts allow you to stay in the bubble and pay those lovely Disney prices to do so but there are plenty of places to stay offsite with nicer rooms, bigger rooms, equal amenities and all for a fraction of the price. That money I save pays for lots of extras at Disney.
Don't get me wrong - love Disney resorts and love the places I have stayed offsite. Each trip has different needs and we go with the best value for our stay for who is in our party. Neither is right or wrong.
TO ME: EMH is one of the biggest perks for onsite stays because it can not be substituted or duplicated for offsite guests.