If you go during Dapper Day or Gay Days, you can get significant discounts at the hotels. You do have to pay a non-refundable first night's deposit and ethically, you should be willing to support the group in some way. For Dapper Day, buy an expo ticket. It's a great event at Disneyland Hotel and it's under $20. It's also really fun to dress up but you don't have to. For Gay Days, wear a red shirt or something and be supportive. If you don't feel supportive, then don't use their discount. Both events have websites you can google to find. Both groups host events in spring and fall...