QueenIsabella
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Jan 17, 2016
Okay, I talked to my sister. She actually had her husband talk to B, probably easier for her. He just said he was too broke to come, didn't ask for money, end of discussion (with him). She has no interest in paying for B to come to a funeral or memorial. He made her miserable when he was in the US for our mom's funeral--pulled stunts like throwing out her furniture while she was at work, because it didn't meet his standards.
I floated the idea of cremation, she's considering it. I'm looking at it from the perspective of, if she wants a funeral mass, I'm fine. I'll sit through it, more to make my sister feel more at peace.
I've gotten the landlord's phone number. I'll call him tomorrow, see if I can get more of a feel of how D is doing, how he's been the last few years, etc. By the way, Sis and I can afford to provide a funeral and burial for D--it wouldn't be a hardship for either of us. And we want to do right by D. He's had his struggles, but we never stopped caring about him.
I floated the idea of cremation, she's considering it. I'm looking at it from the perspective of, if she wants a funeral mass, I'm fine. I'll sit through it, more to make my sister feel more at peace.
I've gotten the landlord's phone number. I'll call him tomorrow, see if I can get more of a feel of how D is doing, how he's been the last few years, etc. By the way, Sis and I can afford to provide a funeral and burial for D--it wouldn't be a hardship for either of us. And we want to do right by D. He's had his struggles, but we never stopped caring about him.