I was just wondering how many of you BF for longer than 1 year??? The WHO now recommends at least 2 years...
My DD is 20 months and we are still nursing 2 times a day.
I just read some of the Non-AP thread ,and while i think everyone is entitiled to their own opinion..the last post said something about BFing a walking toddler in the mall...and was wondering why that is such a problem. No one says anything if a "walking toddler" is drinking from a bottle.
IDK..i really dont want to start a debate, just wondering....really..lol
It funny..up until about a year ago i didn't realize that my parenting stlye had a label...with 3 dd's we just did what felt right for us.
I read that too and thought the same thing, not only why it should be a problem but what business is it of hers that a mother bf her child. DS is 2.5 and is just starting to self-wean and I get alot of grief about it because it is not the "thing" to do in the US.
I always tell people that
1. I'm doing the best for my child. After coming home from a dr. appt where she told me my medical problems were most likely from bf (turned out I have PCOS) and I should wean, DH did some research. He came down and saif OMG even at this age! Uh. no kidding!
2. It is good for me. The longer a mother nurses the better the chances of preventing, ostp., b. and o. cancer. Which run in my family.
3. Though not common in US it IS common worldwide. AND NO NOT THIRD WORLD COUNTRIES. I always get this and it drives me bonkers not Africa worldwide.
4. What I do for my child is no one else's business. Sorry to be rude but I don't understand why people think they should tell me how long to nurse for. I didn't tell you how wrong it was to give formual, did I? Or how about how long they should have the binky or bottle? Why, cause it is not my child and is none of my businesss. And I try not to make judgements on other people's parenting styles.
Well, those are my responses to people. I felt the same way you did when I read that in the NON-AP board. I also love how they pigieon hole? us. We all do the same thing including wearing our children to the point that they are never let down to play I wonder do people REALLY think that or are they so sure that their way is the only way that they close their minds to everything else?
I think of it like this I have researched parenting styles and tried several things and have found what works best for us. I don't coment on other parenting styles and am quite happy with my own. As a result I have a happy well-behaved sweet-heart. And since perfect strangers come up and tell me so, I know I'm not just biased. And I have to wonder if you make so many comments on my parenting style, maybe you are not truly happy with your own.