Judique
Dis Veteran, Beach Lover at BWV, BCV, HHI, VB
- Joined
- Aug 1, 2003
Good windy morning. Isn't it supposed to be the calm after the storm? The winds have started and will continue until 5, with gusts up to 50 mph. Thanks to the rain, at least most of what I hadn't shoveled yesterday has disappeared from the driveway. We didn't get any notice of trash not being picked up today, so I leveled one of the snow piles at the end of the driveway and put the bags on top of it.
Going to go grocery shopping today, Summer is going with me. She called me yesterday and spent almost an hour telling me about Gracie's issues in school, to ask my opinion on if I thought she was overreacting (I don't, I would be doing the same thing). She had gone out with a sophomore (football player) for a little while last year. After they broke up, he started bullying her (which is odd, because he himself was badly bullied when he was overweight. Now that same boy is bullying Gracie, and has been for months. The school won't do anything about it. Last week, In front of a classroom full of students he told her he wished she would either kill herself or just die. Gracie reported it to the school, as did Summer, and once again, the school says they can't do anything about it. That it's a 'he said she said' situation. Lily 9Gracie's older sister, showed Summer texts from other kids as proof (including this boys girfriend), stating that he did say it and they heard it. Summer wrote a letter and brought it into school with copies of those messages. She's giving them until Friday to do something about this kid for harassment, and then taking it to the superintendent if nothing is done. This is going past bullying now.
@Snowysmom --That's terrible about the water issue
@bobbiwoz --I'm sorry to hear about your fall. I hope the tests lead to some resolution for you.
Have a good day everyone.
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Maryland public schools have a policy regarding bullying, forms to fill out and corrective actions to follow, which include phone calls to the parent, conferences with both parties and corrective action that can be taken that include warnings to the alleged bully.
Bullying is serious. It should not be taken lightly or brushed off. It should be nipped in the bud and can be if actions are taken early. Bullying can also come from staff members who belittle the bullied person by not taking the complaint seriously and therefore sending a message that this is okay.
It's particularly concerning that it's happening at the high school level age group that I think I remember Gracie being in. After looking at some statistics for Allegany County (?) I see small numbers, which could be a result of smaller student enrollment or lack of school reporting which I believe they have been mandated to do for quite a few years now.