snoopy5386
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Aug 12, 2003
Last fall we unexpectedly took possession of my father’s cat due to my dad’s health issues.
We were very upfront with our kids (10 & 14) about the possibility of the cat not being with us permanently - things were very up in the air, we were not sure if my dad’s health would resolve, how his cat would get along with our existing cat, we had some adjustment issues with peeing, etc.
Eventually my dad’s health issues worked out and we decided we would return the cat to him this spring. Well then, the pandemic happened and so the cat is still with us.
We are going to return the cat to my dad in about 3 weeks and my kids are having a really hard time with this, understandable since we’ve had him here with us for almost 9 months.
We plan to get another kitten not too long after, and I’m hoping that will help, but I’m not sure what else to do to make them feel better.
I keep telling them we will see him again, after all he is going to live with their grandfather!! My dad is about 4 hours away so we see him just 3 or 4 times a year. My dad lets the cat outside at his house and they are worried he will escape the yard and get hit by a car or run away. They are worried he will be sad or think he’s been a bad cat and wonder why we have abandoned him. All kinds of things.
Just looking for advice from someone who has been through this type of thing before.
We were very upfront with our kids (10 & 14) about the possibility of the cat not being with us permanently - things were very up in the air, we were not sure if my dad’s health would resolve, how his cat would get along with our existing cat, we had some adjustment issues with peeing, etc.
Eventually my dad’s health issues worked out and we decided we would return the cat to him this spring. Well then, the pandemic happened and so the cat is still with us.
We are going to return the cat to my dad in about 3 weeks and my kids are having a really hard time with this, understandable since we’ve had him here with us for almost 9 months.
We plan to get another kitten not too long after, and I’m hoping that will help, but I’m not sure what else to do to make them feel better.
I keep telling them we will see him again, after all he is going to live with their grandfather!! My dad is about 4 hours away so we see him just 3 or 4 times a year. My dad lets the cat outside at his house and they are worried he will escape the yard and get hit by a car or run away. They are worried he will be sad or think he’s been a bad cat and wonder why we have abandoned him. All kinds of things.
Just looking for advice from someone who has been through this type of thing before.