We are in this position with the 44" rides. My husband and 7 year old have FP+ for FOP, while me and our littlest guy have FP+ for NRJ. For Space Mountain, our FP+ are split between that and Space Ranger Spin. For Everest, we've got simultaneous FP+ for Kali River Rapids. I'm not trying to game the system, so much as trying to do the thrill rides I want to do, while making sure that my kids have something fun to do at the same time that isn't going to take more time than my ride.
I really hope I get to do FOP...
I’m in a similar situation. I we have a 45” DS (5yo) & 37” DD (2yo). I really want to ride FOP whereas my DH doesn’t care. I don’t know if my DS will be too scared to ride FOP or if he will love it. I know my DD generally prefers to go with me (she’s in a mommy-phase like most 2yo goes through!).
Option 1: Ideally, I would do FP for FOP for all of us, but can’t, so this isn’t an option.
Option 2: FP for FOP for DS & me, and FP for NJR for DH & DD. But if my son gets too scared to go on, I also will feel really bad he can’t even do NJR as he won’t have a FP, and not sure if my DD will have a meltdown going through a dark ride without me. So I foresee this as the option where no one will be happy!
Option 3: all get FP for NJR. Viable option and one I considered for a long time, but after reading all the DIS reviews, this doesn’t even seem to really be a tier 1 ride...
Option 4: DH & I get FPs for FOP, & skip NJR altogether but DS (& DD) will not get to use a FP as they can’t get on a ride by themselves. So this is not an option.
Option 5 (the route we’re doing): FP for FOP for DH even though he doesn’t care about the ride. FP for NJR for DD, DS, & me. We get RS for FOP, and then my DH reports back on whether he thinks DS will love it it hate it. I use RS and take DS on who will hopefully love it.
So yes, I guess if you consider it gaming the system that DS & me might ride two tier 1 rides, sure you can say that. But that wasn’t our intent (especially as it seems Disney has no problem with us doing this!). And our other FPs are for KS and Finding Nemo, not the big ones like EE or Kali.