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Disney or Bust
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- Jun 12, 2003
At this point Im just needing some advice and sympathy I think ... sigh
Thanks to our DVC we are blessed fo take my first cousin family members on a large family trip. We all grew up together but now find ourselves scattered so this will be a great way to connect again . 4 age groups , almost 70s, the 50s, the 20s, and one 7 year old .
We have made abundantly clear we are providing rooms (lots of space!) for everyone but it's their vacation to do what they want . I even have a family website that has everything detailed down to Uber info from the Airport.
I've done our itinerary for 7 year old which includes several rope drops and is generally pretty heavy on the rides . I call this the fast moving group
The huge problem i can see coming is the one person who seems to continually expect to spend every minute with the fast moving group yet for local family events it's always a toss up wether she will even make it to the family gathering much less show up on time. Full disclosure , I am size 16/18 myself but I walk daily and can manage the large amount of walking in the parks . Not to be brutal but this cousin is much larger and has health issues to go along with it .
It's not that I don't want this cousin to come . She doesn't seem to be picking up all the stuff I'm laying down about we all aren't staying together all day. I also don't want to get caught up in rescuing her.
Tbh , I'm all over the place and just looking for someone not directly involved to share an opinion . The fast group is already expressing concern to me about being slowed down too
Thanks to our DVC we are blessed fo take my first cousin family members on a large family trip. We all grew up together but now find ourselves scattered so this will be a great way to connect again . 4 age groups , almost 70s, the 50s, the 20s, and one 7 year old .
We have made abundantly clear we are providing rooms (lots of space!) for everyone but it's their vacation to do what they want . I even have a family website that has everything detailed down to Uber info from the Airport.
I've done our itinerary for 7 year old which includes several rope drops and is generally pretty heavy on the rides . I call this the fast moving group
The huge problem i can see coming is the one person who seems to continually expect to spend every minute with the fast moving group yet for local family events it's always a toss up wether she will even make it to the family gathering much less show up on time. Full disclosure , I am size 16/18 myself but I walk daily and can manage the large amount of walking in the parks . Not to be brutal but this cousin is much larger and has health issues to go along with it .
It's not that I don't want this cousin to come . She doesn't seem to be picking up all the stuff I'm laying down about we all aren't staying together all day. I also don't want to get caught up in rescuing her.
Tbh , I'm all over the place and just looking for someone not directly involved to share an opinion . The fast group is already expressing concern to me about being slowed down too