lucyem
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Nov 26, 2004
OP, before you change the whole system, I have to ask if your DH understands your overall financial position? Many years ago we found ourselves having to really budget in between jobs etc. DH only saw the end results and not our monthly bills. He kept telling me to stop spending money. I said fine, here is the checkbook and you do it. After a month he finally understood how much food cost and electricity and cable etc etc. I was back to being the bill payer but now I had a spouse who understood our position better and stopped complaining I was spending all the money. Maybe in your case it would help your DH understand the whole picture and maybe he can then decide how much he will spend each week. That way he feels in control and maybe can stop resenting you for the "allowance".