So, hire more staff that are specifically trained to deal with children with developmental disabilities. It's not like they can't afford to do so. That's my point. They could make an effort, but they don't.
Carnival and Celebrity have official designations for being Autism Friendly. I know autism is just one type of developmental disability, but the principles of communication and facilitating interactions is similar for all special needs kids. They don't provide 1:1 care in the kids areas. I'm not suggesting 1:1 ratio of care. I am suggesting having at least one kids club staff member who is specifically educated in working with special needs kids, in all three clubs, at all times. So, what would that be, like maybe 6-9 extra staff members? Or maybe they have thier current staff take some training to learn some strategies so everyone is on the same page (this is how the other cruise lines do it...They hire consultants to come aboard and do training for the kids club staff periodically).
We have done 2 Dream cruises and the experiences in the kids club during secure programming were awful. They had no idea how to deal with my son's meltdown when he was 6 and he is verbal and high functioning They basically let him spiral completely out of control due to a very minor situation that anyone with even the smallest amount of training would have been able to handle. He was basically ignored. It was very traumatizing for him and he refused to go back outside of open house hours. Frankly, that experience has kept us away from
DCL and it's been now 6 years since we have done a cruise. We are waiting until our kids are just old enough to stay in the room alone when DH and I want some adult time. We are almost there now that our youngest will be 13 next month. We will give our kids the option of the teen club, which they might do to play video or computer games, but I don't expect any sort of accommodations to be made. My kids are pretty responsible and self reliant, though. I just think it's a shame that people are made to feel like their kids aren't wanted at the clubs because they might need to pay a little extra attention to them. Let's be honest, how much do those teen club CMs really have to do? Teens are pretty self sufficient in social situations like that. I imagine the CMs in those clubs are simply supervising to make sure kids aren't misbehaving.
The point I was making with the parks is that as a COMPANY, Disney seems to respect the needs of people with disabilities, but they seem to ignore the kids completely when it comes to the cruise line. It's inconsistent.