I like the idea of a vacation home, but it isn't the way we want to go for this trip. We are all very good friends, and would like to stay that way! You know what they say about proximity...
Our children are all about the same age, 2 girls who are 8, 2 boys are 6, and 7 &9 year old boys. They have been friends since they were toddlers.We have different parenting techniques and I think the secret to a successful trip for us is for everybody to have their own accomodation. I have a very high tolerance for chaos and bedlam, dishes left after supper is ok with my family if there is something better to do, however one of the Dads (obviously not my DH, lol) is more, how shall I say it, "structured". Living with us for a week would make him insane. ( The other family is more like us)The general plan is for us to all stay at the same hotel, and each family to do their own thing with some shared outings. I picture the adults having a nice cool drink in the afternoon by the pool while the kids play in the kiddie pool, and rehash our day's activities, and maybe trade off babysitting so each couple could have a night out alone. If we were travelling with just one of the other families I might give it a whirl, but I think with the diversity of the group that is going we are better off in our own space.