I dont understand why we as parents do this to ourselves? Why on earth do people give a flying flip about how other people are conducting themselves? Why do we need to pass judgement on those around us, like we do it right EVERY time? Especially making this judgement in a theme park of all places.
Why is it that people expect that every family is going to have this Magical transformation upon entering Disney property? That the children will be smiling, will be happy and will polite? That the adults will keep their cool and will agree with everything their partner has to say. Its a vacation. A vacation that people have spent hundreds maybe a thousand dollars on and you say take the kid home if he or she is throwing a tantrum????
(and punish the sister/brother who is not throwing the tantrum?) It's a theme park that is jammed packed with people. Standing in 50 min lines and in sweltering heat at times and you are surprised at the kid who is whining? The kid who is freaking out? The parent that is freaking out? Nope! I'm not surprised. I may not LIKE it, but hey they aren't my kid....I'll just try to make sure my kid is behaving. That's MY business. It's a theme park, not Buckingham Palace. People dont use their best manners here just like they dont at the park, at the mall, at the store.
I may not LIKE the fact the person who choses to change their kid on the bench. But I just wont go and sit on that bench.
I may not like the fact the kid is screaming in line behind me and the parent is choosing to ignore it. But i also dont like it at a grocery store or at the mall either. So why would I be any more appalled its happening at disney. If anything I understand it MORE at disney.
You probably wont like the fact that I have a harness on my child at disney. Or that I may nurse my baby under a blanket on a ride. Or that I let my kid have ice cream before his dinner. But this is life and people dont always act the way we think they should. Heaven forbid someone catch those who are judging others for exhibiting less than perfect beahviors at THEIR embarrassing moments.