I travel with a group of six, this is what our meals tend to look like:
Two adult CS, one child CS, a snack credit and $3 OOP at sunshine seasons becomes:
A green salad topped with chicken breast for me.
A bowl of black bean soup with rice and a side of broccoli for grandpa.
Cashew chicken and stir-fried vegetables for my sister
Dark meat chicken and veggie of the day for Grandma.
a bowl of fruit or other dessert that gets shared around, or another salad for anyone who wants it.
Enough milk that two kids and four adults have more than they want.
Macaroni and cheese for the one kid who can eat it.
Two hardboiled eggs, rice with butter, carrot sticks with dip and a pudding cup for the other child.
That's a half-chicken meal with plain rice and veggies, salad for dessert and milk for the drink. A cashew chicken meal, stir-fried veggie and broccoli for the sides, fruit/dessert/salad for the dessert, milk for the drink.
A kid's meal mac and cheese, with carrot sticks and pudding cup, milk for the drink.
A snack credit of soup.
OOP hardboiled eggs.
Ask for a couple of extra plates, get cups of water for everyone, and some empty cups to split the milk.
At the table, the green salad gets topped with chicken breast. The rice gets split between a child's plate and grandpa's plate (with his soup), leaving a chicken dark quarter and a veggie for grandma.
The cashew chicken meal donates the broccoli to grandpa.
The kid's meal donates the carrot sticks and pudding cup to go with the child's plate of rice and hardboiled eggs.
Milk into cups for those that want it (the kids usually split a big milk, grandma drinks a small low-fat, grandpa drinks half the other big milk and then we try to entice the kids to finish it.)
It's about thinking creatively. And I suppose, not being offended by the idea of taking 2-3 minutes to replate food so that everyone gets what they want.