mmbrad02
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- Feb 4, 2006
I really don't want to start a debate at all, but I am curious - for those of you with teens/tweens, at what age did they get (or do you plan to get) a phone? There are many factors we are considering at our house - responsibility, maturity, the fact that we don't have a home phone, grades, going to friends houses, etc.
I will go on to say that my daughter is 11, fifth grade, and we are debating this Christmas, the end of the school year, or the beginning of next school year. Fourth grade was TOUGH at our house with two working parents and her trying to tackle virtual learning. She ended the year very frustrated and low confidence - we told her if she made Straight A's in fifth grade, she would get a phone at the end of the year.
in the meantime, I thought about this Christmas as a complete surprise (she truly would not expect it) but it would be my old iPhone 8 and she wouldn't take it to school. (for the record, she does, indeed, have Straight A's thus far). Come May, we will hold up our end of the bargain if she has the grades. In August it will be necessary because she is riding the bus home to an empty house for a couple of hours till we get off work, and we do not have a home phone..
Again, this is just some thoughts, nothing in stone, I am just curious as to what others have done.
I will go on to say that my daughter is 11, fifth grade, and we are debating this Christmas, the end of the school year, or the beginning of next school year. Fourth grade was TOUGH at our house with two working parents and her trying to tackle virtual learning. She ended the year very frustrated and low confidence - we told her if she made Straight A's in fifth grade, she would get a phone at the end of the year.
in the meantime, I thought about this Christmas as a complete surprise (she truly would not expect it) but it would be my old iPhone 8 and she wouldn't take it to school. (for the record, she does, indeed, have Straight A's thus far). Come May, we will hold up our end of the bargain if she has the grades. In August it will be necessary because she is riding the bus home to an empty house for a couple of hours till we get off work, and we do not have a home phone..
Again, this is just some thoughts, nothing in stone, I am just curious as to what others have done.