I hear what you are saying, and I did give it a lot of thought before I posted it. Everyone who knows our family already knows this story, and the circumstances that have occurred over the years. I believe more people may be helped by knowing how things like what happened to Dom & our family can happen to them, than may be hurt by it. I've seen firsthand the damage keeping "family secrets" can do. I don't want people to think Dom was just another spoiled, lazy, over indulged kid who grew up to be a drug addict. He wasn't. He was a nice, kind, quiet, considerate, adorable young boy who was subjected to an extreme amount of stress & pain, although I'm sure not intentionally. Instead of growing into a confidant young man, he was the least confidant person I know, had low self esteem, and obviously thought he was a loser. He was never given the chance to stand on his own, to learn to make his own decisions, & follow his own path. He was always too busy trying to keep the peace, and keep everyone happy. He was trying to escape his world, his pain. At least, this is what I believe.