We've suggested to him so many times to seek out a counselor or child loss/grief support group. He just doesn't want to hear it. As it is, he's pretty much written off the entire immediate family. He & his wife moved to Florida four months prior to the accident. It's something he's always wanted to do. They both left their jobs, bought a house, and moved down there, with no jobs & no health insurance. I don't know what he was thinking. Dom didn't want to move down there with them, but my brother put a lot of pressure on him, so he did, but Dom never changed his residency, still had NJ car insurance, a NJ driver's license, and was collecting NJ unemployment. Luckily, that enabled him to be eligible for NJ Medicaid, which was the main reason for bringing him back up here, along with the fact that his mom and sister are here in NJ, as well as the rest of the family. My brother knew it was the right decision, and provided all the documentation for Dom to receive NJ Medicaid, but he blames us for Dom being here, and not in Florida. I think he needs to keep his anger alive, and dwells on that, rather than the reality of the situation.