I recently went to a family wedding out of state. I got the bride a gift from her registry but not at the store where she was registered. I called the Mother of the Bride (MOB) and told her and she said she would take the gift off the registry.
So we drive 800 miles, take the gift, go to the wedding and have a nice time.
A few days later we are having a family dinner and the MOB says they got a duplicate of my gift and do I have a gift receipt. Now I wish I would have said "Don't you think if I had a gift receipt that I would have included it with the gift? or Take the other one back." But I just said I didn't have a gift receipt, I got it at a discount store and there is not a branch in this area. I said that is why we called and told you we got the gift, it was the exact one that was on her registry. MOB then says oh well maybe she can just take it back to Macy's, I say maybe she can.
I think it was rude of MOB to even ask for a gift receipt, if she got two then take the other one back. It's almost two weeks later and it still bothers me. I think once you give a gift you shouldn't be asked about returning it.
So was the MOB rude or I am over reacting?
So we drive 800 miles, take the gift, go to the wedding and have a nice time.
A few days later we are having a family dinner and the MOB says they got a duplicate of my gift and do I have a gift receipt. Now I wish I would have said "Don't you think if I had a gift receipt that I would have included it with the gift? or Take the other one back." But I just said I didn't have a gift receipt, I got it at a discount store and there is not a branch in this area. I said that is why we called and told you we got the gift, it was the exact one that was on her registry. MOB then says oh well maybe she can just take it back to Macy's, I say maybe she can.
I think it was rude of MOB to even ask for a gift receipt, if she got two then take the other one back. It's almost two weeks later and it still bothers me. I think once you give a gift you shouldn't be asked about returning it.
So was the MOB rude or I am over reacting?