I remember 10 years ago when my granddaughter was about 3 (I hope my older daughter doesn't come on to read this..I never told her!) at my son's college graduation, at a campground, my younger daughter and I noticed her under the picnic table with a can of soda and a bag of chips. Her mom didn't allow her to have soda or chips, (but her other grandma confessed to me she gave her a little here and there), and my younger daughter and I just looked at each other and pretended we saw nothing. When she was full, she came out, and my daughter caught sight of her, and said, "oh Ashley, you have been so good, you can a little chips and soda". And Ashley said, no thanks mom. My daughter turned and said to me..she is so good, she knows it's not good for her and turned it down. My other daughter and I both went into the RV saying we had to get something, but really we just had to laught ourselves silly. Bad grandma!