Sounds familiar. When DH's company merged with another located in the CarolinasWe are in South Jersey and a great location. We are 20-30 minutes from Philly, NY & Baltimore 2 hours, Jersey shore 60-90 minutes and have mountains within a couple of hours as well.
Our neighborhood is a mix of first time homeowners, families and empty nesters, a perfect mix.
I'm 5 minutes from Disney... I can hear the ferry horn, electric light parade (pre-covid), see fireworks, etc. When I want to go walking, I go to one of the parks, or a resort. But I'm still in a total residential area (north of disney, not south in Kissimmee where the tourist things are), so it's a regular life when I want it, and vacation life when I want it.