LovesTimone
Christmas Day 2017
- Joined
- Apr 29, 2009
My DH and I have a date night or day all the time... Sometimes that date is to a fancy restaurant getting dressed up, sometimes like today we are going to look at the decoration at the parks and get some pictures for our Christmas card, Sometimes it just the two of us on a boat ride down the ST. Johns river... Married people date each other all the time.
DH and I were friends first, hanging out in groups, then more and more just the two of us... sometimes we would meet, others he would pick me up, I even picked him up a couple of times.
It sounds like you are trying to figure out where you both are at in the equation. Are you wondering if you are in a relationship? Casual dates or you wanting to see where its going, do you want more? You need to know what you want, be honest with yourself.
Having a open line of communicating is important in friendship as well as in relationships. There are some signs that he is interested in more, which for me worked when I was in the dating game. Have you been to his house? Have you met any of his friends, or family? With the up coming holidays have you talked about spending time together? Do you plan to get together again while on a date, or make plans for the future.
Another thought sometimes guys are trying to figure out, what you are thinking, or maybe he is just cautious of the relationship as you were friends and not wanting to mess things up, in case it doesn't work out.
When all else fails.. just ask him.
DH and I were friends first, hanging out in groups, then more and more just the two of us... sometimes we would meet, others he would pick me up, I even picked him up a couple of times.
It sounds like you are trying to figure out where you both are at in the equation. Are you wondering if you are in a relationship? Casual dates or you wanting to see where its going, do you want more? You need to know what you want, be honest with yourself.
Having a open line of communicating is important in friendship as well as in relationships. There are some signs that he is interested in more, which for me worked when I was in the dating game. Have you been to his house? Have you met any of his friends, or family? With the up coming holidays have you talked about spending time together? Do you plan to get together again while on a date, or make plans for the future.
Another thought sometimes guys are trying to figure out, what you are thinking, or maybe he is just cautious of the relationship as you were friends and not wanting to mess things up, in case it doesn't work out.
When all else fails.. just ask him.