Trying to make everyone happy. I live 2 hours from my family and only 30 mins from my in laws. My MIL is pretty chill about things. Normally Christmas is at home, and we are traveling the weekend before. Not sure what is happening with my side of the family since my grandpa has to move to a board and care home with more care due to his failing health. Christmas eve might be at my SIL's an hour away. I hate being on the road so much, but I do love both sides of my family, so they are worth it. Unfortunately DS #1 is having major dental work the week before Christmas, so that is an added stress.