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I like that! As a worrier, I am going to try to remember that one.
For me I guess it was when I realized that God isn't waiting for us to cross all our t's and dot all our i's before He/She loves us. God already does love us. The basic rules (commandments, some would call them) are just there to help us avoid experiencing pain or inflicting pain upon others, much like loving parents teach their own children.
It's a good one KristaTX. I have a mother how worries about every little thing. It's exhausting. It was exhausting as a child trying to figure out how to "present" things to her so she wouldn't go off in a tailspin of worry. It's exhausting as an adult for the same reasons. There is so much I would have liked to have shared with my mother but just didn't because the level of worry it would cause her, and the resultant angst her worry heaps down on me wouldn't have been worth the trouble. Taking a trip nearly causes an emotional breakdown for her...."What if the plane goes down? What if your rental car breaks down? What if you get mugged? What if something happens to Daddy or I while you are away?". I hear this literally until I say good-bye and when I call from the trip I hear "Is your hotel room door locked? Did you take enough money? Do you have a jacket?" I have gotten to where I answer her with stupid responses like "No the hotel room door is wide open and I have a sign on the sidewalk outside pointing in so the rapists can find me more easily". "No I have no money so I am turning tricks in an effort to earn enough money to be able to vacation properly". "Jacket? Who needs a jacket when I'm not wearing any clothes at all???".
So "don't bleed until you get shot" has a special place in my heart.